Is this a good idea?

**DaneClark** · 20-09-10, 03:34 AM

Hypothetical situation: You and your husband-to-be are going on a tropical honeymoon. He wants to surprise you by buying you a new bikini for the occasion. He picks one that he knows that you'll like and he knows you'll look great in. Would you like it if he did this, or does it make him seem like a creepy pervert?

**ecojeanne** · 20-09-10, 03:47 AM

eh what sort of question is that? why would she have a problem, is the bikini weird?

**xxazurexx** · 20-09-10, 04:34 AM

Why would one think of their husband as a creepy weirdo and if he bought a bikini?

**ecojeanne** · 20-09-10, 04:47 AM

it's not so much creepy but possibly stupid. she may not like what you decide to buy...will it be the right size? and will she actually want it...

**sparkle_jello** · 20-09-10, 05:17 AM

Where does creepy perv every come into play here? Husband to be... bikini???? Guys buy lingerie for their spouses all the time, not even that is creepy or pervy. Pervy is getting some kind of weird porn like beastiality or something.

**DaneClark** · 20-09-10, 06:32 AM

Okay, now that I've got that settled, does anyone know how I can find out what size to get without her getting suspicious?

**sapphire109** · 20-09-10, 07:35 AM

Depends on the girl. You know your fiance better than anyone, but give it to her before honey moon and explain, saves putting a possible dampener on your early days of marriage. Don't forget ladies are self confident in bikinis sometimes

**breacliff** · 21-09-10, 07:27 PM

yeah, this is great topic. thanks for sharing.
Do you have doubts about his turn on and turn offs, his likes and dislikes? Well, fortunately for you, ALL men are wired the same. If you didn't know that, you've been working in the dark -- and way too hard!

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