As I was finishing up my workout at the gym and walking out the door, I saw a cute girl walk out too. We smiled at each other and talked like we have known each other for years, it was very pleasant. Although, I did not care to pick up on her so I just said "See you around" and went on with my day. Later that week I saw her in a coffee shop so I enthusiastically said hi and we talked about what we did for a living. I told her that I was a musician and blanket making specialist "joking with her". She laughed and we exchanged names at that point as we walked to our cars. Later that night, I found her on Facebook and we exchanged very flirtatious emails for about 5 days. She wants me to come over to her house and serenade her with my guitar. Later she wants me to "test" her blankets...(that seems like an innuendo). She gave me her exact address and time to show up.
I have never met a girl who has been so direct with me, ever.
Does she want to F** me or something? We both mutually agreed that we are not looking for relationships, we are looking to have fun AND she JUST got out of a 5 year relationship...
What should I expect tonight? I hope she is not like this with all guys (I fear std's).
Maybe she just needs a rebound.
What do you think?
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07-10-10, 08:47 PM #1
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It seems like she wants to F** me but I JUST met her.
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07-10-10, 09:38 PM #2
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If she wants to **** and you want to **** what is the problem? I don't know if you've realised but sex can be great fun. And I find it quite a turn on when a woman makes it pretty clear that the object of her desire is ME.
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07-10-10, 09:42 PM #3
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I guess you can say that I am shocked with meeting a girl who is so straight forward and courageous about it. It makes me think that she is "loose" or has std's. I do not think so because she said that she just got out of a 5 year relationship. Interesting.
She is 24 or 25 years old so she knows what he wants.
I am just so used to having to chase girls relentlessly.
This will be fun!
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07-10-10, 09:53 PM #4
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Ah yeah, that old double-standard. If a woman thinks about sex like a guy does, then she is suspected of being a slut.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
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I never thought about it that way. She is probably not a slut. I guess she feels comfortable enough with me to be courageous.
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Sometimes you just want to go for it. For example, with women I can be pretty shy most of the time. With my ex-GF that all flew out of the window. On our second date she came to dinner at my house and we were talking about what we wanted. I looked her straight in the eyes and said 'I want you'. I have never ever been so direct. The fact that this girl is pretty explicit about wanting you should be a good thing not a bad one. You should feel very pleased because I don't think there are enough women brave enough to do the same.
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08-10-10, 01:33 AM #7
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Dude, just go for it. Direct women are awesome. You only get 2-3 chances like this in life, so take this one.
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08-10-10, 01:37 AM #8
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If both are you are just looking for fun then just look for fun . . .if you both want sex then go for it. . . if not, then don't
As for the STDs well, that's a downside . . . but just a hazard of most sexual activity.
