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    Heyy

    a lot of guys tell me im beautiful or flirt sometimes. but im not very confident . i always feel like i have to be perfect.. so i always wait for them to come should i just go to them?

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    Doesn't really matter who goes to who. I hate this question people pose all the time. Just someone go, doesn't matter who.
    "Why are you an atheist?"
    "because I paid attention in science class."

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    Quote Originally Posted by lalarose View Post
    Heyy

    1) a lot of guys tell me im beautiful or flirt sometimes. 2) but im not very confident . 3) i always feel like i have to be perfect.. 4) so i always wait for them to come should i just go to them?
    1) that's nice
    2) Why? . . . in what ways aren't you confident? in what ways are you insecure?
    3) No real person is perfect . . . and no perfect person is real

    --> 4) Someone goes for it else nothing will happen. . . .if you want something, go out a get it - don't just always assume, or expect, that someone else will do all the initiation

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    Quote Originally Posted by lalarose View Post
    Heyy

    a lot of guys tell me im beautiful or flirt sometimes. but im not very confident . i always feel like i have to be perfect.. so i always wait for them to come should i just go to them?
    If you go up to him, he may feel more comfortable getting closer to you. Girls don't understand how much power they really have... don't come off as an obsessive clingy person but just introduce yourself and it will be easy from there.

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