low self confidence, help mee!!

[manohlantern12]

Someone help me please. I really like this girl and we've been hanging out with other friends too. I don't have alot of confidence in talking or being aggressive with girls. I have a feeling that she is into me but I don't know what I should do. We've held hands in the past and stuff, and theres things that incline me to think that i have a chance but i have no self confidence. I have homecoming this weekend this saturday in fact and my buddy is going with her friend and she is going solo. I HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE someone help me!

[sparkle_jello]

Self confidence isn't really something someone can give you. There are gorgeous women out there that get hit on with every step they take and they have incredibly low self esteem. My warning is that if you continue to hide behind this excuse, you will miss out on opportunities. Man up, ask her out, the worse that can happen is she says no.

[manohlantern12]

well how should i do it like shes even tough to text its weird like i dont want to say the wrong thing and be like a creep.

[MerryH]

"Hey, want to go to Homecoming with me?"

[August]

Don't be afraid say things you wanted to say on her, about what you feel, that you love her and all the stuff rather than waiting for the time.. duh..

[Agape]

Keep it short and simple . . . honest and direct

Since you know she is going solo, take the opputunity. . ."Hello,___, may I take you to homecoming?"