My boyfriend who I love very much went on my pc the other day and saw an old picture of me and an old Boyfriend laying naked in bed (you can only see from the neck up.) I have a laptop that I always use and since I got that like 3 years ago I barely use the PC except to download music. I had forgotten all about that picture along with all the other pictures on there. He didn't ask to use the computer but I was sleeping and his was in the bedroom so he didn't want to disturb me. After he saw the picture he turned it off and left it alone. When I got up he didn't say anything and he seemed mad at me the whole day. I kept trying to talk to him but he just kept saying he wanted to be left alone. So I just went about my day I figured he would tell me when he was ready. Finally hours later he said he wanted to talk to me. He told me what happened and that he was sorry he snooped. He was really mad. More mad than I had ever seen him. I told him it wasn't a big deal that I just forgot those old pictures were there and that I would erase them. Then he started freaking out saying that he couldn't get the image out of his mind and that it was ruining what image he had of me and that he didn't know if he could get over it. I told him that he was blowing it way out of proportion and that the picture didn't mean anything to me. But he said that he posted the situation on some message board like this and that everyone on there (it is an all men message board) said that I was a slutty w*@#e and that I was keeping those pictures because the guy still meant something to me and he needs to break up with me. Well, the arguing kept going on and eventually he said that he doesn't know if he wants to be with a slutty w#*@e and that I was a b*&#h and that I ruined everything and this just destroyed our relationship. I figured that we were breaking up and I was really upset and crying and everything but then eventually he calmed down and said he was sorry for getting so crazy. But it hasn't been the same since. He keeps telling me that he's still not over it. He acts like I did this on purpose. I did everything I could to fix it. I erased the picture and apologized for having it at all. Shouldn't he just get over it? I'm with him not the guy in the picture. I don't know what else to do to make it better. Any ideas?