Okay i have a problem me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year now. We are still in high school and her parents are extremely strict. At the beginning of our relationship it was really good, we are both in sports so after practice we'd hang out for awhile without her parents knowing.
Eventually she would come to my house and little by little we would get more intimate eventually we started experimenting with touching and oral. SHe felt bad about it at first because she's pretty religous and all but after awhile she gave into her desires and she didnt really care.
One day though her parents found out about it and they grounded her for the whole summer and made her feel horrible about the whole thing. Her parents let her off after awhile though however everything completely changed. We hardly ever hang out after practice and when we do its just at the park or we go to dunkin donuts or something. She also started joining more clubs and volunteering at place so that limits are time together even more and shes always so busy.
I also get no action anymore. We went from doing everything besides having sex to just making out and it just sucks so bad and its really frustrating. She says she feels closer to god now that we dont do any of that but it really sucks for me. I mean i really do love my girlfriend without a doubt but i really just hate the fact that i cant hang out with her or do anything with her because of what happened to the point where im thinking of breaking up with her. I do love her but i want a relationship with someone i can actually spend time with and actually enjoy my teenage years with. What do you guys think?
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28-10-10, 08:40 AM #1
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28-10-10, 09:18 AM #2
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how old are you?
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28-10-10, 10:46 AM #3
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makes perfect sense for you to desire a relationship with something whose life is congruent to yours. I don't think you sound crazy at all
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28-10-10, 12:47 PM #4
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your need and wants are normal . . . but I think the situation isn't going to work out. . . her background and her parents are compatible. and also, you said she "felt bad about it at first", I wouldn't want to push her
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28-10-10, 09:10 PM #5
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It sounds like what you want from a girl is not something she's going to give you. If you want sexual intimacy from a girl, best look elsewhere. if you want a relationship, stay with her and work it out. Decide what you want and be honest with yourself.
