Need help with a weird situation

[Lake]

Ok, I have had a major crush but I don't know how to attempt it
I'm new at my university. This is my first semester of my first year. Everyone is friendly at my dorm but there is this one girl whom I like more then any person I've met two months ago lol. She's an RA at my dorm (of the womens area of course.) I first started noticing her when I consistently kept seeing her doing things I thought to be cute/funny/odd like dressing up in a snow outfit for a rain day. The first time I talked to her I was trying to get rid of a bag a trail mix that I was going to feed to the raccoons outside my dorm who wonder around during the day. Someone told me that they were rabid so I decided not to. I had already eaten all the m and m's so for all I was concerned the trail mix was depleted. I was sitting around studying when she walked by and I offered her the bag of trail mix and her blue eyes got big and exited and she said that she loved trail mix.

Later on I kept noticing her and all the funny/cute/odd things she does. I'd talk to her when I ran into her. I found whenever I even came in contact with her no matter what my mood I was instantly happy and it lasts for hours. An example of this is when I was having a heated argument with someone on the phone.... she walks by waves and says, "hi." The whole time I stop talking to the guy and when the moment passes I regain my sense of reality and start talking to the guy like a good friend and we end up agreeing to hang out later.

I originally left two notes under her door over a few weeks (I thought she probably had a boyfriend, she's drop dead Beautiful, Smart, Cute, Nice, Hard working, and Incredibly interesting to talk to.) So I didn't want to cause her problems. I was totally worried she'd think I wasn't confident or was a creeper or something. Later on the day of the second note she walked up to me when I was sitting in the lobby and gave me hers. She thought I was sweet, she didn't have a boyfriend, but she recently got out of a two year relationship and isn't looking for one. At the end she said she'll see me around.

I've come in contact with her twice since the weekend. In the morning I was kind of pissed off, it was early and cold but on my way into the dorm I noticed someone carrying a pile of books and walking backwards toward the door so naturally I opened it for them... to my surprise it was her she smile and said hi... I was in a state of euphoria for a few hours..... Then tonight she was leaving the dorm and I was studying in my normal spot which is in the lobby and I saw her leaving and said bye and waved... She returned the gesture by waving and smiling and saying bye....

This leads me to my point....

I know she isn't looking for a boyfriend at the moment but how can I best set myself up to be there at the right time when she is?


Ps. I am trying to find other girls who I like via, dating websites and searching IRL but it's hard to replicate the feeling. The closest thing I get to it is when I tuck my dogs (beagles) in with a blanket on the leather sofa when my dad isn't home and I'm at my parents house . (it's this warm tingling feeling but it's separate from sexual attraction which makes me guess it's an adrenalin and endorphin release... the chemicals that are typically released when someone loves someone. (it's really weird because I barely know the girl :S.)

[Lake]

I want to badly but at the same time I am thinking about moving out of the dorms (back to my parents house so I can sleep and have better grades . Even if I have to commute and listen to stupid rules I don't agree with it will be worth it in the long run.) The biggest problem with moving back to supplement my sleep cycle is that I won't be in the same dorm as her and I fear I will lose contact. ( Ps. I don't have to pretend to be busy 16 credit hours and a part time job have robbed me of that need for a delusion.)

[Lake]

Ah, I'm not moving back home lol totally not worth it .

[VincenzoG91]

She thought I was sweet, she didn't have a boyfriend, but she recently got out of a two year relationship and isn't looking for one. At the end she said she'll see me around.

I learned the hard way that this is the exact kind of thing that a really nice woman says when she rejects a guy. It's probably even true, except that the specific reason she still isn't looking for one is that you aren't going to be it.

But who knows, maybe the horse will learn how to sing. Just take a step back, and occupy yourself with other stuff, like your classes. Remain friendly towards her and maybe even strike up the occasional conversation, but also try to move on for now.

[girl68]

Whatever you do, don't dote on her every exsistance. As in don't be her little bute puppy. Essentially, move on man. Look elsewhere.

[Lake]

I was going to but they have this auction for a charity thing going on at my university .... They auction a date with nominated people. The girl I like put herself and her former boyfriend on the board. I just happened to be there when she did; I'm not sure if it was intentional. One thing is for certain. I'm counting my pennies.

[justcheckin]

whatever man, its college. You will fall in love about 1000x more times before its over with. Buckle up, sit back, and enjoy the ride