dating and hooking up sequence

[ginastar]

so typically you kiss on the first date and then what typically happens on the 2, 3, 4 date?

[blent]

You do what feels right.

[ginastar]

so its not bad to fool around on the 2nd date?

[VincenzoG91]

During my peak dating years, I was flexible regarding what happened on the first two dates, but if there wasn't sex by the third date, I generally moved on. Fortunately, I was less cynical by the time I met my current girlfriend. She made me wait seven months, but it was worth the wait because by then, the feelings were intense.

[Applesauce]

1st date - kiss
2nd date - oral sex
3rd date - intercourse
4th date - threesome

[ginastar]

wow so people move faster than i thought. thanks

[vashti]

The answer to this question depends entirely on the people involved. Some people move right on to sex, and others don't, especially if the girl is looking for a genuine relationship.

[Raven_Skye]

If there's chemistry, I'll kiss on first date.. of course. If there;s no chemistry there's no point in doing second date. The rest depends on how it goes etc..

[girl68]

I typically don't kiss on the first date.

[Þēostru]

you are too specific. a man cannot expect anything to happen an any date. i think most people might kiss on the first date at the end, if everything goes good, but not like making out. after a few dates you might start making out or even sex.

we guyz are very horny, hahaha, but we want to wait a little while. tension from waiting makes sex very passionful and rememberful.

[ginastar]

yea well just wanted to know the average.
well this guy i hung out with , we kissed the first date but by second and third date we were giving each other oral, which he intiated more than once til i gave in.
so now im wondering if this will make a guy lose interest cause i still want to eventually have sex with him and now its been a week since we hung out although we still are talking and texting.

[RockNRoll]

I wouldn't normally kiss on the first date. Maybe an inconnent kiss on the 2nd, but more chances on the third. Depends on person, amount and quality of time and chemistry of course. But I never judge based on the 1st date, always give a chance for a 2nd date and never regreted it, I tend to like a guy much more on the 2nd date. So if everything is great it will start from small kiss on the 3rd date. Lots of hugs and cudles are really an indicator that we are moving on. And kisses will become more hot and intense. It goes at the same speed as "getting to know you" and becoming closer emotionaly.

[RockNRoll]

ginastar, you might want to meet up again to understand if he is interested. Our statistic will not help you in this.

[Boisdevie]

The only rule is that there are no rules. In my case normally sex happened by the 2nd or 3rd date.

[ginastar]

well he hasnt asked me to hang out since the 3rd date, but he still texts me