How long between intercourse and doing it again?

[Take2]

OK, so most guys I have slept with have been ready to roll over and go to sleep as soon as they have an orgasm, so that is what I have come to expect. Sure, in college I dated a guy who would sometimes come back for round 2 an hour or two later, but he was 18, and I thought those days were gone. I am in my 30s and only interested in guys my age.

My current bf is ready to go again 5-30 minutes after the first time and several times in a row. He thinks this is normal and average, which leaves me wondering...is this unusual, or did I just have incredibly bad luck in choosing lovers for 16 years and this is really average?

[sweetkissesforu]

Its normal for him lucky you lol

[qwertz]

Its not normal or abnormal.

[girl68]

Normal but that wouldn't fly for me. I get sore after enough...

[MrCoffee]

My own take is that you've hit lucky this time (assuming "ready to go again 5-30 minutes after the first time and several times in a row" is what you want/enjoy) rather than being unlucky before hand. If it does suit you, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, enjoy and don't spend time worrying about what used to be with previous lovers.

[qwertz]

I actually prefer one longer session of foreplay/intercourse rather than over and over again.

[Take2]

To clarify, I am not worried at all, just curious. I am not talking about several short sessions in place of one long one, or in place of good foreplay. And I would agree that quality beats quantity in all things...but a quantity of quality is even better.

[MrCoffee]

s...but a quantity of quality is even better.

Beautifully put!

[Kama]

When I make love I want it to be prolonged and if just do it fast I just ejaculate and it is over. My wife wants sex to be a celebration not a chore.

I too do not want to have many sessions of mechanic sexual acts but a qualitative act of sex. We just sit together, hug and kiss and fondle for a while. Then we massage each other her vaginal parts and my penis all get stroked for a while and then we oil ourselves with grease and after greasing ourselves we find ourselves so much soft and malleable.

Then we watch pornographic movies too that make us more aroused.

When we have rains of arousals we get entwined romantically and sexually and this is how we can prolong our acts of sex

[Boisdevie]

I'm 46 and can normally manage twice in a night and once or twice in a morning if there's the time. But it's quality over quantity every time.

[Take2]

I'm 46 and can normally manage twice in a night and once or twice in a morning if there's the time. But it's quality over quantity every time.

Thanks, that's what I was wondering. And yeah, it's time permitting, of course, as you need a pretty open calendar to have multiple rounds if you're doing it right!

[Gratedwasabi]

Thanks, that's what I was wondering. And yeah, it's time permitting, of course, as you need a pretty open calendar to have multiple rounds if you're doing it right!

He finds you irresistible. It sounds like extreme attraction more then anything physically being different about him.

A lot of men can accomplish that.. but most of those men don't have the interest. It sounds like he's wildly attracted to you and can't get doing naughty things to you off his mind so when you do get together he can't get enough of you. You should be flattered.

[sweetkissesforu]

I actually prefer one longer session of foreplay/intercourse rather than over and over again.

i agree with you and more then once is good 2

[Take2]

He finds you irresistible. It sounds like extreme attraction more then anything physically being different about him.

A lot of men can accomplish that.. but most of those men don't have the interest. It sounds like he's wildly attracted to you and can't get doing naughty things to you off his mind so when you do get together he can't get enough of you. You should be flattered.

Thanks. I hadn't thought of it that way. I guess I can be flattered.

[doppelgaenger]

Lately my sex drive has been pretty low and I'm not interested in going out and getting laid. Just doesn't phase me.

I tend to prefer the really long 3-4 hour kind of sex, and just one in the evening, sometimes every other night. If I'm having a quickie, like 20 minutes to an hour, two or three times is good enough for me.