Why do good relationships go bad?

[twinrexes]

BTW I met genuinely, not generally!

[meshulam]

i think the main reason for good relationships to go bad is the fact we are getting used to our spouse, once you take your spouse as an obvious thing the way down the hill is very close.

i think the secret for long, good relationships is to know when to give your other half his/hers space. from time to time, let them miss you, let them have their own hobbies or friends an so on...

it's a basic rule in life, if you do something (anything) too much (even sex with the same person) you WILL get tired of it, so the smart thing to do is to stop doing it from time to time.

[Gribble]

Monogamy is not natural for human beings. It takes intense and completely unnecessary sacrifice to maintain a mongamous relationship for any length of time. I almost feel sorry for the people who've been suckered into throwing their lives away on marriage.

[twinrexes]

I meant to say genuinely, not generally!