What feels better? dildos or the real thing?

[Areo]

The reason i ask is because my gf said she can get off like 5 times with her crazy "rabbit" toy. I've looked at this thing and obviously theres no way any guy can compete. The thing vibrates, spins, and has a vibrator for her clit. She says she loves havin sex with me and she has told her friends we have "great, amazing" sex. But i can only get her off like once MAYBE twice. But with this thing she gets off like a bunch of times. Its making me kind of insecure. So what does feel better?

[vashti]

This is kind of like asking a man "what feels better: masturbation or sex with a woman?" Obviously, the end result is the same, but solo acts of sex aren't as satisfying as having a warm, willing body participate.

[Ryan Heitzman]

So Vashti. Your saying that masterbation and the real deal are the same? If it is I don't look forward to sex anymore.

[Boisdevie]

Sometimes you are alone and you want to get off - understandable. But when you have a real live person there that you love, who can kiss you, who can give you a massage, who can tell you that they love you, that's a million times better than some battery powered dildo.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I agree with you Boidevie.

[sweetkissesforu]

Your gf is able to relax with the rabbit with sex tho she has to think bout you but you 2 seem to be able to commicate or she would not have been able to tallk bout this why dont you bring the rabbit with you next time lol

[girl68]

Depends, sometimes moaning for half hr at 2am to get my jollies off isn't what I want, I can do it alone in 5 minutes. That said, Having my lover love me doesn't even compare.

[Ryan Heitzman]

Agree with upper thread. Accept I can probably only do it for 2 minutes. But like I said I'm a virgin and I really don't know for sure.

[smackie9]

Neither are better, just feels different. Sometimes you choose masturbation because you don't have to worry about satisfying someone else. Everyone needs their private time once in awhile. But if you are young and never been in a 7- 10+ year relationship, youl won't understand this. We all need some variety, so changing it up with toys, self pleasure, or including other people is the thing to do. It's personal choice.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I already read what you said above sweetkissisforu. It didn't have anything to do with me. Why did you say ignore it?

[Gribble]

I can get off way easier and way more frequently on my own.

That doesn't mean it's better than having sex. Not by a long shot.

[vashti]

So Vashti. Your saying that masterbation and the real deal are the same? If it is I don't look forward to sex anymore.

Are you illiterate?

[Ryan Heitzman]

To Vashti the so called hot muffin guru.

Illiterate. No. Kind of bothered by your statement. Yes.

[Junket]

To Vashti the so called hot muffin guru.

Illiterate. No. Kind of bothered by your statement. Yes.

Stop being an idiot and people will stop treating you like one.

Think before you post.

That's what's wonderful about forums, you have plenty of time to consider what it is you're saying, and how others may interpret it.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I didn't know I was. I got the Impression she was saying that sex is as good as masturbating. My point was trying to say that people what is the point of having sex when you can just masterbate in privacy.