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    question for the guys

    say you met a girl out clubbing, got on really well and got her number, how long would you take to send a txt? because this is what happened on friday. i met this lovely guy and he said he'd txt me but ive heard nothing yet, and i'd really like to get to know him better! or am i just being panicky?

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    could be never. some guys asked me my phone numbers in clubs but they never called back again.

    Doesnt matter coz i was all ****ed up in cocktails, couldnt even remember their faces..maybe they were too. LOL

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    Funny you should ask that today, as I'm making a rare excursion into the club world both tonight and Monday.

    There's an unwritten 'two day rule' with most men. 'Wait 48 hours before calling. Don't seem too anxious or desperate.'

    Me personally, I'm aggressive. If I meet somebody I like in a club I'll call'em the next morning and ask how their hang-over is. 'Wanna meet for breakfast?' But that's just me. Some guys are 'number collectors,' guess it feeds their egos.

    There's not a lot of gray area in my social life. My past history is love at first sight or nothing at all.
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    i would text the girl the very next day to show my interest.

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    ps.. unless he was really drunk and forgot that he got your humber.. hey, it happens.

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    Yeah, Im straightforward too, I would call ASAP But thats just me. Alot of people have this idea of the way things are "supposed" to be, and follow "rules". B.S. I say

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    Bah...

    In no way am I a normal guy.

    Cannot answer your question.

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    you're not a normal guy huh?? what are you then?? a crossdresser??

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    I would call the girl the day after the next day. So 2 days from the club night. I give her a day rest from partying so hard and trying to see if she remembers me when I call her after her day of rest. It's just appropiate.

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    you're not a normal guy huh?? what are you then?? a crossdresser??
    No, haven't tried that, and I don't plan on changing that. I'm just a very speshul boy.

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    errr...and in whose mind would that be??

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    Quote Originally Posted by xas
    say you met a girl out clubbing, got on really well and got her number, how long would you take to send a txt? because this is what happened on friday. i met this lovely guy and he said he'd txt me but ive heard nothing yet, and i'd really like to get to know him better! or am i just being panicky?
    He's gotten you anxious enough to post on a website called "Love Forum". Sounds to me like he knows what he's doing.
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    moe.. i'm guessing that your post is referring to the author of this thread. however with so many different posters, it's a bit hard to make out who your post is directed towards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional
    moe.. i'm guessing that your post is referring to the author of this thread. however with so many different posters, it's a bit hard to make out who your post is directed towards.

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    Yeah, well, edited.
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    haha.. i just wasn't sure if you were referring to me, the poster before me, or the author.

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