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Thread: How to Get over My Best Female Friend ?!

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    How to Get over My Best Female Friend ?!

    I have a HUGE crush on my best female friend, and I want to find a way to get over her...
    She doesn't know it... she already has a BF...
    I have her on my mind 24/7, and whenever I try to meet someone else,
    My brain just can't stop comparing her to all the other girls around, and none seems to be even close to her perfection...
    it Sux!!...

    Help!!

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    If you guys were made for each other then you'd be together. The fact that you're not together tells me that she does not feel the same way about you as you feel about her. So try to forget her and find somebody that digs you.

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    ^^ I agree. You like an illusion, you think she's perfect because you haven't been together. If she would have wanted you as a boyfriend, you would have been together by now. Set some distance between you two, stop seeing her as perfect and try to move on.

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    You need to get laid.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    Create some distance between the two of you. Don't hang out with her more than once a week, and don't initiate contact with her and don't be so quick to respond to her contact.


    Vincenzo's advice will also help a lot, I think.

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    Wahhahahahahahahahahaahahahahhaahahahhahahahahahah ahahaha
    Thanks!!
    ..

    I know that there's no way to be with her.. My question was how to get over someone that u see almost everyday, and talks to U as soon as u woke up till the second u fall asleep...
    So if distance is the answer!!... Cross fingers!! (its gonna really be hard!!)

    Thanks!!

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    Cut off all contact with her and go find something else more useful to do with your time.

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