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    The Player

    I`m in love. I KNOW!! Don`t yell at me. I know how stupid I am.

    But this crush has lasted for 4 months now. So far, ive been playing him back, not revealing my feelings.

    So. Whats next? Im screwed..

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    The logical possibilities are fairly obvious. You either make some move or other, or you drop it and always think of the what ifs.

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    So wait? How exactly have you been playing each other?

    You got to share more details than that, but don't write a novel!

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    I've always believed that you don't play games. That's for idiots quite frankly. You let the other person know how you feel and then see how the cards fall. Potential love and happiness is far too important for games.

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    I believe as Boisdevie states that potential love and happiness is far too important for games. But if 1 side of the pairing reveals all and the other continues to play games, this results in heartbreak, I know because this happened to me. Now I am trying to piece together my life. It's v hard to know what to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatieOhio View Post
    I`m in love. I KNOW!! Don`t yell at me. I know how stupid I am.

    But this crush has lasted for 4 months now. So far, ive been playing him back, not revealing my feelings.

    So. Whats next? Im screwed..
    Just make slight advances on him and sees how reacts, if he doesn't reacts positive to it you might as well think that he doesn't like you.
    Just go slowly and bit by bit. Hope this might help you.
    Just so you know, being in love isn't stupid, it is sweet and natural. I hope it works out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatieOhio View Post
    I`m in love. I KNOW!! Don`t yell at me. I know how stupid I am.

    But this crush has lasted for 4 months now. So far, ive been playing him back, not revealing my feelings.

    So. Whats next? Im screwed..
    So which is it? Love or a crush? Make up your mind.
    Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by qwertz View Post
    So which is it? Love or a crush? Make up your mind.
    What's the difference? In my vocabulary crush is just one way of falling in love.
    Last edited by Yet another guy; 24-12-10 at 03:54 AM. Reason: typo

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatieOhio View Post
    I`m in love. I KNOW!! Don`t yell at me. I know how stupid I am.

    But this crush has lasted for 4 months now. So far, ive been playing him back, not revealing my feelings.

    So. Whats next? Im screwed..

    I think you need to grow up.
    You don't "play" with anyone especially their emotions/feelings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KatieOhio View Post
    I`m in love. I KNOW!! Don`t yell at me. I know how stupid I am.

    But this crush has lasted for 4 months now. So far, ive been playing him back, not revealing my feelings.

    So. Whats next? Im screwed..
    Enjoy it. It never gets any better.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    make slow ans small advances. if he reacts positively keep going. if he reacts negatively he doesn't like you

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    so....you haven't updated your status?
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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