dating an older man

[wtf]

I've always been mature for my age. I find most people my age to be on another plane completely, so I decided to try dating an older man, to see how I like it. So far, so good. We've been seeing each other for a couple months, get together about once a week, and have a great time together. He treats me better than any man I have ever been with, the sex is better than I've ever had before, and we both have a mission to keep things light and fun. We have no plans to get serious at all. However, he is twice my age. Normally, I wouldn't fuss about talking to my parents about it because it's so casual, but eventually they will run into each other and they are slowly starting to want to know more about him.

How can I approach this subject with my parents? Any ideas?

I would appreciate mature, open-minded, non-judgmental responses. Calling me "gross" is not helpful. Thanks.

[girl68]

Tell your boyfriend about your fathers weapons.

[Gratedwasabi]

Twice your age? That's a bit extreme. How old are you?

If it's never going to get serious, why would you introduce your parents into it? Not a great idea, considering if he's twice your age he's old enough to BE your parent.

Just have your fun and keep your parents out of it.

[sweetkissesforu]

Ive dated younger and older dont ask how old im am truth be known i want some that thinks on the same level likes attract

[wtf]

Twice your age? That's a bit extreme. How old are you?

If it's never going to get serious, why would you introduce your parents into it? Not a great idea, considering if he's twice your age he's old enough to BE your parent.

Just have your fun and keep your parents out of it.

I'm 21. The reason I would tell them is because I live with my parents, and he comes to get me and stuff like that sometimes. Eventually they are going to run into each other, and I would rather inform my parents instead of having one of those awkward moments where they have to "find out".

[Gratedwasabi]

I'm 21. The reason I would tell them is because I live with my parents, and he comes to get me and stuff like that sometimes. Eventually they aSo hre going to run into each other, and I would rather inform my parents instead of having one of those awkward moments where they have to "find out".

So he's 42ish? At least that probably makes him a bit younger then your parents (well, maybe.)

Why do they have to run into each other? If you're just having fun, when he picks you up go out to him. Unless you have the least worrisome parents ever, they aren't going to approve and especially living with them you probably don't want to delve there.

Does he look younger? If you must introduce them, lie. Go for early 30s if he can pull it off. It's not a serious thing and it's better then your parents freaking out over age.

[sadie_genie]

If you think he is good enough for you then there is no need to be too concerned with your parents. But think hard if you really want to go down this path. His sex drive will fade away faster than you.

[sweetkissesforu]

ure an adult hon none of their business how old he is

[vashti]

I don't think you should tell your parents at all, considering you do not intend this to be serious. No parent wants to know their baby is dating a dirty old man. They aren't ever going to be able to accept this.

[wtf]

Well, I think I will just do my own thing and try my best to keep him and my parents separated. If they end up finding out, I suppose I'll deal with it then.

Thanks for your help, guys!

[sweetkissesforu]

not nessary you must be young viagra

[sweetkissesforu]

So he's 42ish? At least that probably makes him a bit younger then your parents (well, maybe.)

Why do they have to run into each other? If you're just having fun, when he picks you up go out to him. Unless you have the least worrisome parents ever, they aren't going to approve and especially living with them you probably don't want to delve there.

Does he look younger? If you must introduce them, lie. Go for early 30s if he can pull it off. It's not a serious thing and it's better then your parents freaking out over age.

Bad advice what if this relationship works why lie she is an adult

Worst case senario the son in law is the same age as her parents lol

[Faylefox]

It has always amused me by the fact that some women like to 'date' older men. They convince themselves as being more mature and therefore needed to be treated by a older and more 'refined' gentlemen. I'm not going to contest as to whether or not women who do date older men are as mature as they say they are but I will say that while love knows no age limit it causes societal problems.

A classic problem young/older relationship causes is outlined by the poster above.

[doppelgaenger]

tell your parents that you've been dating older guys and give them your reason. they'll ask how much older and BAM, like a slapchop, tell them that he's in his 40s. your mother will probably be appalled and your daddy's insecurity about his beuatiful daughter getting deflowered by some creepy old fawker shall be exposed. come on lady, be a little empathetic toward your peers. do we all have to bend and break the taboo just so you can be happy, just because some older dude is taking advantage of you? you clearly have the wrong idea and attitude about all this - banging an older guy doesn't mean you're any better than some horny 21 year old guy whom you wouldn't give a second chance.

[Gratedwasabi]

tell your parents that you've been dating older guys and give them your reason. they'll ask how much older and BAM, like a slapchop, tell them that he's in his 40s. your mother will probably be appalled and your daddy's insecurity about his beuatiful daughter getting deflowered by some creepy old fawker shall be exposed. come on lady, be a little empathetic toward your peers. do we all have to bend and break the taboo just so you can be happy, just because some older dude is taking advantage of you? you clearly have the wrong idea and attitude about all this - banging an older guy doesn't mean you're any better than some horny 21 year old guy whom you wouldn't give a second chance.

Hahahaha, be nice.

I'm assuming it's a kink thing, just like I enjoy bagging older women. She probably enjoys that he treats her like a ****ing goddess, since he's getting to stick his pervy old dick in a 21-year old thang. Don't hate, you know you'd like a MILF suger momma!