Get Him Back Whatever it Takes

[angela85]

Loving a person is a very generous thing to do and very sad also when you fall apart. In the case of my boyfriend falling out of love of me is a very big slap to me. Am I not doing anything to make him love me?

Please post some advice and suggestion guys. Thanks. happy New Year!

[SelflessnHumble]

Loving a person is a very generous thing to do and very sad also when you fall apart. In the case of my boyfriend falling out of love of me is a very big slap to me. Am I not doing anything to make him love me?

Please post some advice and suggestion guys. Thanks. happy New Year!

Can you please post one thread and post everything in it?
You don't have to make a new thread for each problem.

[reeba]

You can't force a relationship. Could someone force you to love them?

You thinking you can make someone love you, is just as insane as .......Maybe you can drug him and then tie him up in your basement. He may not love you, but you can FORCE him to stay with you.

[angela85]

Thanks Reeba. Is there any tips that is not so harsh like advice?

[smackie9]

The truth is relationships come and go. This concept of "forever" is unrealistic. As you grow up, you become a different person and you keep changing. Your attitude towards things change, your taste changes, and interests change. You do grow out of friends and relationships as well. He grew out of yours. He wants change, to venture out as an individual, and have different experiences. A break up may seem harsh, but well we all had them and we all got over them. Getting over a relationship is like grieving a death, it's a death of a relationship. But after a few weeks you will start to feel better and the pain lessens. Then as a month goes by you will feel optimistic about enjoying your life again. You will realize that you can live without him, and you can be happy again. Just remember a guy cannot give you a life, only you can do that. Just get busy doin stuff, hang out with friends, go to some parties, flirt with some guys....have fun.