would you as men, (think of urself as the age of 31) date a girl who is 20 years old? Date like... seeing a future together. A long term relationship.
YES or NO?
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05-01-11, 05:09 AM #1
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yes or no?
Id rather hurt than feel nothing at all
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05-01-11, 06:08 AM #2
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I can't say I never would, but it is an age gap I would try to avoid. I have known couples of those ages who have made it work though, at least as well as any same age couples I know.
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05-01-11, 06:18 AM #3
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(Guy's age : 2 ) + 7 = This age or more is the perfect age. Now let's count it again on your example
(31 : 2 ) + 7 = 22,5 <-- Oops, it's not exactly 20.I wazzzz here
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05-01-11, 11:08 AM #4
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apparently just saying "no" is too short of a response, so: no.
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05-01-11, 12:05 PM #5
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No. A 20 year old doesn't know what their future or long term is. They might think they do, but they don't. And I'm 24, I'd still not date a 20 year old.
Originally Posted by sarah91
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05-01-11, 12:43 PM #6
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In the past I would say yes, but now I would say no. I'm 23 and I wouldn't date a 20 year old. I would date someone who is my age or older, because they are more mature than girls who are 20. Girls who are 20 like to party.
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05-01-11, 04:05 PM #7
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Probably not, but I can't say no for sure. Age is just not a good indicator of 1) maturity and 2) compatibility. It has certainly happened though so not sure what the significance of polling people here is.
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05-01-11, 05:16 PM #8
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Yes, I'd date a 20y/o when I reach 31. Casually, but it probably wouldn't amount to a relationship.
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05-01-11, 11:21 PM #9
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Hell ya!!!!
LIVE IT UP !!! IT'S.. OK, TO BE STUPID
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05-01-11, 11:39 PM #10
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Sorry to interrupt since this is suppose to be male answers only. But from a 21 year perspective, I am often hesitant to date a 30 year old when the opportunity arrives because a 30 year old would be looking for a serious relationship and possibly marriage while a 20ish year old has a long future ahead and plenty of options. They are just in different stages of their life. Unless, the 20ish year old doesn't have much of a career plan and wants to settle down to a marriage, the future of the relationship looks gloomy.
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05-01-11, 11:40 PM #11
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That's not really accurate. I've taken the liberty of writing a better equation to determine age appropriateness. Originally Posted by Petit Papillon
((3/2)(31))^(4/5) = 21
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05-01-11, 11:55 PM #12
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The math equations have nothing to do with anything.
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06-01-11, 12:56 AM #13
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Jerk Originally Posted by doppelmakemelol
That's not really accurate. I've taken the liberty of writing a better equation to determine age appropriateness.
((3/2)(31))^(4/5) = 21
........I wazzzz here
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06-01-11, 01:03 AM #14
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When I was 31? Yeah, though I wouldn't necessarily see a long-term future together. Originally Posted by sarah91
See, men don't think like women about dating. Women generally don't see a point to dating a guy unless he seems like potential marriage material. A guy is generally willing to keep seeing a woman as long as sex seems like a possibility.Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
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06-01-11, 01:11 AM #15
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I am 24 dating a girl that turns 20 in a few days and I can tell you I feel like I am honestly pushing the age boundary. Being 31, you are AGES more mature then her, no matter what shes says.
