So yeah obviously from my username you see what i'm getting at.
Right now, i'm just very, VERY upset and jealous going around school working my schedules, and all i see are girls ALL OVER those bad boy assholes *as usual* and it's funny because the more i search about it, girls NEVER FULLY ADMIT they're attracted to jerks, when in reality they LOVE them!
im trying to become i guess a *good* guy, but im starting to feel like what's the point?? the guy who girls will see as the challenge to change his lifestyle and all that other crap will ALWAYS win, nice/good guys get their left overs usually through a failed marriage or whatever.*sigh* its like ingrained in my head of insecure images of them *getting together sexually* for every single girl i see, and the fact is that it USUALLY happens =/ while i would probably try and get rejected in a heartbeat, while those jerks have SOOO many options for sex its really funny actually lol
A group of girls were talking in the hallway about some guy having major amounts of sex with a bunch of girls during the same night, they didnt even know how many times, and the girls sounded intrigued about it. honestly, that was the last straw for me...im just slowly breaking down because those SUPER hot, asshole jerks will ALWAYS ALWAYS win!!! i mean like GOD every single breakup story with a girl is about some asshole using them for sex while they *fell* for them it's un-f***ing believable!! i read EVERYTHING about oh being a good guy>bad guy good guys are SO rare when it's SO obvious reality wise jerks>good guys =/
it TEARS me up with jealousy and insecurity over ANY girl i would talk to to JUST be attracted to yet another jerk whose more outgoing and does *funny* things that will make EVERY girl laugh that there's just nothing i can do, no matter HOW confident, HOW outgoing i might be, this is honestly how im starting to feel, im only 20 and im considering just shutting girls out cause what is the point if they just want a *spontaneous, outgoing funny guy! aka a lesser version of an asshole* everytime i even see them kiss in a hallway(all the time for how girls just LOVE those jerks!) it's like a tremendous stab in the heart for me...i just feel so freaking weak......
not only that, but my own self worth is going down, i feel that through all m workouts to obtain 6 pak abs i feel i am ugly as heck, un-confident, and is the kind of guy woman just brush off as *oh, that guy* my mom sometimes tries to cheer me p by telling me her work friends say im hot and cute when they're like 30 years+ AND my moms friend so they HAVE to say sumn nice, it doesnt matter cause when i really want it from a girl i like, i dont get it or i just get *your a REALLY great guy, but.....* it doesnt help that my ugly(he even knows this) friend all the way in california is getting girls left and right and his gf gets jealous of him for NO reason cause she thinks he's a stud??? ugh =/
im sorry this post was so long for this rant, i seriously jus feel HORRIBLE about myself right now....idk what kind of advice ANYONE can give me at this point, but because im seeing it so often and since NO ONE in my family cares about my worries, my feelings might just overtime become self harming if i continue to (imo) face this reality that i can probably never compete with those kinds of guys, i wont ever get *hookups* or *girlfriends* or anything because im not SUPER outgoing and confident to actually get what i would like to have, yet the jerks have all the girls in love with them already......what's the point......=,(