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Thread: Guys... I'd like to know what you do when you REALLY like a girl...

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    Guys... I'd like to know what you do when you REALLY like a girl...

    Hi guys... could you please tell how you act when you are really interested in pursuing a relationship with female for a long term relationship, as opposed just wanting casual sex?

    What do you usually do to woo her... in the early stages of your relationship?

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    I can only speak for myself but if I just want sex I'm upfront with that and if I'm in it for the long haul I like to gradually escalate the intimacy over at least a month. Rushing things in that department usally kills my intrest so.

    So if he sticks around for more than a month you can be sure he is not just wanting sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeneathTheSun View Post
    I can only speak for myself but if I just want sex I'm upfront with that
    Shame all men were not as honest.

    But I guess they wouldn't get the sex, if they were to be truthful, because most women don't like to be used as sex toys.

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    Perhaps it depends on our ages? I'm an old git of 47 and if I really love somebody I would buy her flowers even if I can't afford it. I would also cook for her - I love to cook and for me it's a real pleasure to cook for somebody I love. But more importantly I just want to spend time with her. I want to hug her when she's having a difficult time. I want her to know that I'm there for her.

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    Yup, same here. If I cook for you, it's long-term interest. If I cook ratatatouille or lasagna for you, it's love.

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