Sooner or later?

[loving_you]

I would love to hear some honest opinions from guys! ALways getting advice from girls..it'd be nice to hear some opinions of the opposite sex.

Point #1 : My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years... and he has been the "dominant" one in our relationship. He has also been the only one who warns me about cheating, going out with other guys, chatting with other guys, FB friend request-ing other guys!!

He even "threatens" me about what would happen if I ever do any of those things.

Point #2: Also, ever since we've been together, he has always brought up his "ability to get girls" whenever we have a fight.. usually saying something along the lines of "WHat? You think I can't get a girl?"

During normal conversation times, he has frequently brought up the fact that in the past, his friends always asked him to talk to girls for them in the club, and get numbers for them etc... because his "skills" are so good.

Point #3: He has a very very strong dominance issue. He cannot accept the feeling of "losing"...any kind of losing. He has also told me that whenever we have sex after a fight, he feels great because he feels like he just "won".
Back to the 'losing' issue, he can't accept losing bets/challenges:

-A: Last time we went to the club, he brought up the "my friends always used to ask me to get girls..." thing, and I said cool. I was curious, so I asked him to show me his skills. At this point, we hadn't had any drinks yet and he thought about it. It looked like he was gonna say yes, but 2 seconds later, he quickly rejected my idea and showed a bit of frustration as to why his GF would suggest such a thing. He said something about "i'll always be loyal to you. it wouldn't feel good when I do stuff like that"
THEN, after we had a few shots....surprisingly, HE ASKED ME "hey, you still wanna see how good your bf is at talking to girls?" I was quite shocked.

-B: Another time, the day after we had a ginormous fight about him-talking-to-his-ex-behind-my-back, he and his friends had gone to a car dealership. Apparently, there was a hot insurance lady, and his friend "challenged" my bf's skills of whether he could get her number or not. My bf AGREED to this challenged. When I confronted him about this, he said it was because he can't back down from a challenge. WTF?

I may sound like a controlling bitch, checking his phone..and getting mad about him talking to his ex..etc, but I have my own reasons to why I act like that. He has ALWAYS been the one threatening me about talking to the other sex, attacking the errors of my past(before I even met him), etc..

It feels so unfair that after what he always says to me, he acts like this.

MY QUESTION IS:

Do you guys think that my bf will cheat...slip... sooner or later? based on his behaviour so far.

[Boisdevie]

Whether he wil cheat or not the guy sounds like a complete tosser - I'd leave him

[Yet another guy]

I don't know if he will cheat but I don't doubt his "ability to get girls" at all. He seems like a complete jerk and girls love those.

[xxazurexx]

How old is he? 17?

Typical arrogant shithouse ....thinks he can do what he wants, woe betide if you do the same.

DITCH THE TOSSER.

[Dolmetscher]

A relationship with him will probably always be a rocky one because he doesn't believe in himself.

Two men standing in line. One thinks the other went in front of him, and confronts him. The other immediately starts talking about how he could easily kick the other one's ass. The other, shocked by the outbursts, just kind of grins and let's the man walk ahead.

Which of the two do you think has a confidence issue? The guy who TALKED about his physical prowess is unsure of himself, so he felt the need to SAY that he is sure of himself.

Same with your fella. He is SOOOO worried that he isn't good with ladies, and that he'd have a hard time finding a new one, so he TELLS you constantly that he could find a new girl easily.

He is a hurt puppy. And hurt people, hurt people. Watch out.

[loving_you]

He is a hurt puppy. And hurt people, hurt people. Watch out.

He is a hurt puppy. And hurt people, hurt people. Watch out.

That is what I always think! deep inside, when I ponder about why he behaves that way...I think he has alot of personal issues. Honestly, I'm only with him because I want security in my life, and it seems like he genuinely loves me. My first post made it sound like he's a total asshole, but that's not entirely true. He is very sweet and considerate as well.

He has two sides
1) Normal mode : sweetest person in the world
2) Anger/Frustration mode

Usually, any negative emotion he feels will quickly turn into anger. If he gets into a heated argument with me, all attempts to reason with him is futile. He admitted that all he can see when he is angry is "fire/red".

Sometimes I love him, most of the time I'm OK with him (he'd be a good friend), and other times I hate him to death.
I've received many threats(including death) from him...after he calms down, he has always said "sorry" etc, and said that they were merely empty threats he said because he was in the "heat of the moment".

He has improved at chanelling his anger in a non-violent way, but sometimes when he gets very enraged , I can see that he could 'explode' any second.

How would I go about breaking up with him if I made that decision?
I'm so scared of him... he has two sides. When his angry side comes out, I don't know what he'll do and I don't think he can guarantee either.

He has always said "if you hurt me, I'll hurt you back"

But I'm so confused? For the first year of our relationship, I was in an emotionally weak state. During that year, I came to know his "true" face and I have many scars in my heart because of it. He has changed little by little the past few months...but sometimes I act quite coldly to him. I guess I have begun to think something like "WHy should I treat him nicely? etc" ...sounds so childish!

If I want to end our relationship, I don't know how I would do it.