Anal sex revisited

[vashti]

There is pressure on the bowels and ALL of the internal organs during PREGNANCY. No pressure or damage to the sphincter, though, which is a muscle and is no more affected by vaginal birth than your biceps. It is true that when you push during the final stage of labor, you use the exact same muscles that you use when pushing to poop, and it does feel the same. But none of that has anything to do with the sphincter.

I think you might want to research this claim a bit more. All of my resources say the opposite.

[Take2]

I think you might want to research this claim a bit more. All of my resources say the opposite.

Are you referring to perineal tearing? A stage 3 or 4 tear involves the sphincter, but is exceedingly rare even with modern birthing techniques that are more condusive to such tears. Certainly anal sex carries a larger risk of minimal damage than childbirth carries of a stage 3 or 4 tear.

Now, I am a normal modern-medicine-loving gal in all areas but childbirth. But with regard to childbirth, I am a bit of a naturalist. I believe that stage 3 and 4 tears are more a result of putting birthing women in an unnatural birthing position that is not conducive to childbirth, and a result of epidurals rendering mothers incapable of managing their own pushing stage to minimize tearing. Not actually a result of childbirth itself.

In any case, my children's births did not impact my sphincter at all, and I intend to maintain its exit-only status to the greatest extent that I am able forevermore.

[Gratedwasabi]

A bit? For me it was really hard to get it in... i've tried it with a couple different girls. I dunno whose ass you've been ****ing but to whoever cares it's much tighter than the vag.

LOL. Burn!

Okay, granted, it might have been much tighter. As in I went from my normal 15 minutes+, easy, to like a minute or two.

But still. Shit. My general will fight under any conditions but it's my duty to keep him from suicide missions.

[tom84]

My ass is a one way street.

Sorry for you and your husband. I wanted to try anal and at first my wife didn't really care for it. it hurt at first, but we figured out how to do it right... Basically take it slow at first, and use the right lube(we found an amazing brand called liquid silk, check that out, best lube there is!)... Now years later, she loves it, and asks for it often. It isn't just 'for the guy'. I mean, I love it too, but she seems to love it just as much.

[xxazurexx]

I read somewhere that if an ass is penetrated lots of times and over years, eventually it gets to the stage where you are unable to control your bowels and your poop....and you end up shitting yourself and before you reach a toilet.

Is that true?

[girl68]

Sorry for you and your husband. I wanted to try anal and at first my wife didn't really care for it. it hurt at first, but we figured out how to do it right... Basically take it slow at first, and use the right lube(we found an amazing brand called liquid silk, check that out, best lube there is!)... Now years later, she loves it, and asks for it often. It isn't just 'for the guy'. I mean, I love it too, but she seems to love it just as much.

LOL, everyone alwasys screams try again. And they swear by it. I'm sorry but things in my crack is just NOT sexy, not at all. Shit comes to mind, shit eww shit shit dick? Eww, yeah no thanks. Sorry mang but eww and then hell no.

Good on you and your wife.

[tom84]

I read somewhere that if an ass is penetrated lots of times and over years, eventually it gets to the stage where you are unable to control your bowels and your poop....and you end up shitting yourself and before you reach a toilet.

Is that true?

no, that is a myth. Sure pornstars that stick huge dildos, and fists up there may have a problem in their future, but normal anal sex I've researched it won't cause any problems.

[tom84]

LOL, everyone alwasys screams try again. And they swear by it. I'm sorry but things in my crack is just NOT sexy, not at all. Shit comes to mind, shit eww shit shit dick? Eww, yeah no thanks. Sorry mang but eww and then hell no.

Good on you and your wife.

shit really is hardly an issue. I'd say in in the hundreds of times we've had anal sex, only about two or three times has any 'shit' happened. And when it did happen, just a little bit would be on my d*ck after sex. No reason to make a big deal of it, just wipe it off, or take a shower if you feel you need to. If you are going to venture in that area, it is a possiblity, but we haven't found it to be a common occurance. The point is pleasure. If you like the feeling, then go for it... if you don't, then don't... but don't say you don't like it till you have properly tried it

[girl68]

I can say I don't like it because the idea of it is utterly nasty IMO. Nothing would make me dry and clecnch up faster than up the butt.

[ashley89]

don't ask me why but I did this for the first time last night... no lube, it hurt and was painful and didn't really feel good... was pretty much just how I expected it to be. LADIES STAY AWAY! hahahaha

[Gigabitch]

don't ask me why but I did this for the first time last night... no lube, it hurt and was painful and didn't really feel good... was pretty much just how I expected it to be. LADIES STAY AWAY! hahahaha

What possessed you to do this without lube?

[ashley89]

What possessed you to do this without lube?

that's a good question

[doppelgaenger]

How can you have anal sex with lube? That's like a slip and slide without water! Ouch!!!

[ashley89]

How can you have anal sex with lube? That's like a slip and slide without water! Ouch!!!

I know, it just kinda happened... it took some time, and it just hurt, and was bad... don't know if I'd go there again LOL

[doppelgaenger]

I know, it just kinda happened... it took some time, and it just hurt, and was bad... don't know if I'd go there again LOL

Of course it hurt! I'm surprised your ass is still intact! Were you at least drunk? How do you justify this?