My friend drinks too much. Lately she completely looses memory of the nights before. I am worried for her. She said she won't drink again but I don;t think she could do that easily. Anoter friend doesnt care so I am on my own. What should I do
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20-01-11, 07:49 AM #1
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20-01-11, 08:33 AM #2
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buy her some liquor.
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20-01-11, 03:38 PM #3
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There's nothing you can do, other than express your concern once or twice and not be an enabler.
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21-01-11, 08:49 AM #4
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She could try out to be a cast member of the Jersey Shore and then you could live your life drug free.
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23-01-11, 02:56 AM #5
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Some people will do what they will do and there's nothing you can do about it.
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09-02-11, 08:11 AM #6
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alcohol always gets in the way, seriously
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09-02-11, 11:24 AM #7
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buy her some drinks, get her ****ed up to where she will make some questionable decisions and then **** her.....in the ass!!!! she wont remember anyway so take some pics so you can blackmail her later on. or just to have some jack off material.
I got loaded last night on a bottle of gin
And I had a fight with my redneck girlfriend
But when I'm drinkin' I am nobody's friend
Please baby wait for me until they let me out again
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09-02-11, 11:25 AM #8
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oh shit you are a girl huh? well you can still do the same thing.....
I got loaded last night on a bottle of gin
And I had a fight with my redneck girlfriend
But when I'm drinkin' I am nobody's friend
Please baby wait for me until they let me out again
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09-02-11, 12:21 PM #9
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it's her choice if she doesn't listen to you... she'll learn from experience anyway...
What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.
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20-02-11, 12:59 PM #10
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Hopefully she will realise how it's affecting her at some point and stop. Blackouts are so creepy, waking up with no idea what you've done the night before.
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20-02-11, 01:45 PM #11
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If you really are concerned and feel like it's a life or death situation, organize an intervention with her family. Otherwise she will grow out of it when she realizes she doesn't enjoy feeling like shit when she wakes up.
"Sometimes the best way to throw a punch is to take a step back"~Morgan freeman
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03-03-11, 05:23 AM #12
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umm... your friend is an adult and adults are responsible for their own actions...
and this is coming from an alcoholic.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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04-03-11, 07:18 PM #13
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maybe you should get her to smoke weed - that'll calm her down a bit
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07-03-11, 05:56 AM #14
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but being calm is boring... who wants to live like a slug?
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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08-03-11, 03:54 PM #15
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As others have said, you cannot really do much but love your friend anyways and be there for them but at the same time express your disapproval and do not enable the habit.
