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Thread: How do you react in this situation?

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    How do you react in this situation?

    My best friends told me that I can be very black and white, and impulsive with my decisions sometimes. I think this situation confirms that but I wonder if my reaction was over the top or not.

    3 months ago college started. I was in a new group but I knew 1 of 23 students. We're not close friends, but I have known him for 2 years and I thought we could get along quite well. He seemed honest at times and told me that his family was poor because his parents had a long and exhausting divorce battle.

    I felt for him, and I drove him to college because he had to pay for his own gas and it was tough for him. I texted him regularly if there was a difficulty with the schedule, or to make sure where we'd meet etc.

    I once texted him at 9am. 2 minutes later I got a text " Omg Tom help! College has only started 10 days ago and Jesus already drives me crazy!! "

    So he texted this to me by mistake. He had never told me that anything about me bothered him. On the contrary, he let me drive him around. I took very serious offence. I texted back " oke dude. Good luck with your education. Look for a new driver and have a nice life "

    I removed him from facebook and msn immediately. Then he replied " lol man I wasn't being serious but my apology if you don't find it funny "

    I didn't reply. Never spoke to him again. I ran into him in college at times, just said hi and nothing else.

    Am I overreacting?

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    It sounds like maybe you've texted him a bit too regularly and made him feel smothered
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