My girlfriend's way of joking around hurts me

[Spyr]

cause we end up hugging and kissing instead of talking

whos fault was?

[lna]

Wow, then force the issue. How weak can you be? I understand that it's very tempting to do that kind of stuff when you're alone with someone you care about in such a way but jeeze, man. If it's as big a problem as you say it is then you need to do something about it. Don't make excuses and don't be a coward.

I need to be the strong one... or thiese kind of problems are eventually going to get bigger in the future

[curly1118]

Exactly, so less talking about manning up and talking to her seriously and actually go and do it. If you want to stay in a relationship with her it won't work if you can't discuss your issues or what's on your mind. >_>

[xxazurexx]

^Yeah....she will have you under 24 hour surveillance!!!!

And allow you out of the house, via her dog lead and when she feels like taking you for 'walkies'....

[curly1118]

azure stop stalking me! D:

[warriormaiden]

I admit, I have done this. Only because I've felt insecure regarding the relationship.

Sounds like she's insecure, and is using the jokes and your reactions as proof that you really are in it for her. Just sit down, and tell her that it's really getting to you, and you would appreciate it if she stopped.

[Liam_680]

its good to be honest with what you feel, explain to your girl that its not that you dont trust her, its just that it makes you feel bad and jealous.. hopefully she would understand this in a good way.

[qwertz]

Insecurity is probably the biggest relationship killer. Tell her that if she carries on being so insecure then that is the way she will lose you. You def need to talk about it.