Fiance sending me mixed signals...

[yoyoma16]

We were engaged, but broke it off recently because the bedroom scene has been non existent. She says she feels so bad and is guilty that she just isnt horny. She said its happened with all of her ex's and that is why they all didnt work. She feels embarrassed talking about it so we both agreed to give each other a break and some space.

She lives with me and we agreed she should get an apt.

She found one about a mile away from me, because she said it make her feel safer being close to me.

She has no clear timeframe on when she is going to make the move.

She texts me everyday when im at work. Yesterday she texted me a pic of her cat sleeping on my shirt instead of her cat bed sayin, i think dads shirt is more comfortable than bed!

She says she wants to be best friends, but why would you want to keep in contact after a break?

Any suggestions? Thanks!

[QuietProfession]

a relationship without sex has no future - unless youve already been together for years and years and things have slowed down due to age.

i would move on. the idea of blueballs for the rest of my life does not sound appealing.

[Boisdevie]

If it is not working in bed then you guys have NO CHANCE.

[girl68]

Because to her best friends is what you were. You lacked all intimacy and what was left was "best friends" for her. So really, not much changed. But I think in order for YOU to have a normal life you need to take a real break and that means no contact, or very, very minimal and non sense texts are not acceptable.

If she isn't even willing to go see a sex therapist it's really completely over there shouldn't be a "break" is should be a straight up breakUP.

[sweetkissesforu]

I was married twice first one was sex all the time second there was none i prefer sex in my relationship deal breaker if there is none