I was dating this guy for about 3 months and everything was going great. About a month ago he sent me a text saying that his ex wanted to get back together, he had feelings for me, but he was confused and didn't know what to do. About 2 weeks went by and we did not speak, he sends me a text saying that he was sorry that he had not spoken to me in awhile and our conversation went like normal. My thinking was why did he even have to make a decision if he ended the relationship with his ex. I really like this guy and its been 2 weeks since since we have spoken, should I wait for him to make a decision or move on. I feel like I should send him a text to say that I maybe moving, but maybe I am wasting my time.
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03-02-11, 04:13 AM #1
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03-02-11, 04:18 AM #2
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Please don't do that. He doesn't want you, he had barely there feelings for you that were probably only there because he wanted so much to like someone, anyone. Have some pride, walk away and never text back.
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03-02-11, 04:45 AM #3
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Even though he may have ended the relationship with his ex, he could still love her. Not all dumpers dump and because they fell out of love, but for other reasons.
He has backed off from you, disappeared for 2 weeks and obviously to go off pursuing his ex again and see what happens with her.
His text was a mere 'checking in' text and to see if you are still available to him, if he doesn't get back with her.
Don't wait around and for a guy to decide what he wants. If you aren't good enough 'first' time around, don't be good enough 'second' time around either.
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03-02-11, 04:48 AM #4
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Here is what happened:
He *NEVER* got over his ex: check.
Unbeknownst to you: of this fact you get with this guy thinking he's only in to you.
The only possible way he could be confused means: "I still liked my ex, but she dumped me...so I thought it was over...Now that she wants me back: I'm going to get with her
but my consolation prize to you is: I'm confused!
Men don't get confused about something so black and white.
You got played: move on.
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As I am typing this, he is being deleted from my life
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Good girl!
Originally Posted by Allie1120
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