Love or broken heart forum?

[Petit Papillon]

I was thinking to myself... Why everybody who joins the LF is coming here just because their relationship is about to end or had already ended or something like that. I can't remember anyone who came here, being in a totally happy relationship , only wanting to give some good advices... Sometimes it's depressing to read all those sad stories eh... It seems like most of the relationship are meant to end up bad. I mean, I'm in a happy relationship now but after reading all those depressing threads I'm thinking to myself " Cheesus, is my relationship going to end up bad too? ". Why we speak so little about happy relationships and happy ending stories? Winter is depressing enough, lets talk about good sides of being in love

Kind of rant.

[xxazurexx]

Think about it though Petit, reading about other peoples failed relationships and why they ended, etc and reading some of the 'good' advice given, can give us a good understanding into where they went wrong and we can learn from their mistakes and ensure not make the same mistakes in our own relationships.

Therefore ensuring we can make our current and any future relationship better

[Petit Papillon]

I know but since like 3 years I'm reading the same old sad stories. It's like we all are meant to fail in our relationship. Like really, there is not even one couple that is trully fine?
And people, I mean everybody, even you and me, we all are stupid because we look for help when it's too late to get help.Really.

[KingZ]

I can't remember anyone who came here, being in a totally happy relationship , only wanting to give some good advices...

Vash and Indi came here only wanting to give advice, but mostly because they were too stuck-up to ask; not because their marriages are/were stellar.

[xxazurexx]

I only stick around to give advice and have done so for a year. Most seek advice, then disappear....then reappear again when wanting more advice then do one again. But I guess that is what the forums are for.

I only have only ever started 5 threads here I think...and 4 of those were nothing to do with any relationship I have a problem with.

[xxazurexx]

I know but since like 3 years I'm reading the same old sad stories. It's like we all are meant to fail in our relationship. Like really, there is not even one couple that is trully fine?
And people, I mean everybody, even you and me, we all are stupid because we look for help when it's too late to get help.Really.

LOL...so how did you get here? Did you originally come seeking advice?

[Petit Papillon]

Of course I was looking for advice. I'm not THAT special I was actually like most of the members are .Came for an advice, didn't want to listen, came back in few months, didn't want to listen again... And then I came back when my relationship was over and I stayed . And then I didn't have to ask anymore, cause my relationship was/is good enough and I also learned how to learn from other peoples mistakes .
I've also learned that if you want to stay here for a longer period, you better watch out what questions do you ask,what problems do you post here and what stories to you tell ,because... LF is like police , you better shut up because your words can be used against you, sooner or later Especially if you start to fight with others People here have very good memory Muaaaah my Love Forum people

[the_robot]

Of course I was looking for advice. I'm not THAT special I was actually like most of the members are .Came for an advice, didn't want to listen, came back in few months, didn't want to listen again... And then I came back when my relationship was over and I stayed . And then I didn't have to ask anymore, cause my relationship was/is good enough and I also learned how to learn from other peoples mistakes .
I've also learned that if you want to stay here for a longer period, you better watch out what questions do you ask,what problems do you post here and what stories to you tell ,because... LF is like police , you better shut up because your words can be used against you, sooner or later Especially if you start to fight with others People here have very good memory Muaaaah my Love Forum people

I'll use everything you said against you.

[Petit Papillon]

Oh stop it robot , you're not capable of this You're too nice

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[xxazurexx]

Of course I was looking for advice. I'm not THAT special I was actually like most of the members are .Came for an advice, didn't want to listen, came back in few months, didn't want to listen again... And then I came back when my relationship was over and I stayed . And then I didn't have to ask anymore, cause my relationship was/is good enough and I also learned how to learn from other peoples mistakes .
I've also learned that if you want to stay here for a longer period, you better watch out what questions do you ask,what problems do you post here and what stories to you tell ,because... LF is like police , you better shut up because your words can be used against you, sooner or later Especially if you start to fight with others People here have very good memory Muaaaah my Love Forum people

haha, oh yeah, words can be sure used against people and quite often people will take what is 'actually' being said, totally out of context and twist words. I tend to find that people who like to start arguments do this....

I got a good memory....I remember 'everything'

I will have to look at your older posts, hopefully your very first thread will still be there.

[Petit Papillon]

It's possible to find but you have to know how to do it. If so, don't even try to grammar nazi me,cause I've had it enough before... My grammar at the beginning was BAD. That's why I can't even look at my old posts And of well, it's full of BS. Again,that's why I can't look at my old posts. Totally BS. But I was like 17 or 18 at the time, that makes a big difference Well, just don't read them. They are actually sad to be honest. At the time I was heading towards very bottom of everything so... Those posts are just a cherry on the top of the sad cake.
But besides, I really know what I'm saying when I tell other members to listen what we have to say. I know how it hurts to not listen to what LF members have to say. True story

[the_robot]

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You really want to show off your geeky side huh?

I know how it hurts to not listen to what LF members have to say.

I don't know about this, but I know I did good coming to LF.

I will have to look at your older posts, hopefully your very first thread will still be there.

If it isn't here, ask Nick, he may have a copy of that too hahaha.

[Petit Papillon]

Noo, I think Nick keeps just all of Dopps posts. All of them :O

[SelflessnHumble]

lets talk about good sides of being in love

You mean I can post my positive views about love and I won't be met with, "Bullshit!" or, "yeah right" type of replies?

[Petit Papillon]

You mean I can post my positive views about love and I won't be met with, "Bullshit!" or, "yeah right" type of replies?

No... .....