Is it politically correct to say that size doesn't matter?

[doppelgaenger]

Having a big bone is just once piece to the puzzle and it doesn't automatically make you a good lover. In theory, it takes years of experience and pregaming (porn, books, edumacation) before you know how to really treat a lady.
On the contrary, tongues aren't just for talking.

[bloodtippedrose]

If you have a small dick you better be awesome with foreplay. My first bf had a nice size dick but it didn't matter cuz he'd blow his load very quickly.

Basically, if you have a small dick (skinny or less four inches or less in my opinion) I'm not going to complain at the time, we will have a great time, but I probably will talk about it to post boyfriends.. sorry im a bitch also I cant deal with anything 7 inches or larger cuz it feels like my insides are being pushed into my lungs, bleh. I sound picky but size is not a deal breaker to me, its just preferences.

[DCbob]

If you have a small dick you better be awesome with foreplay. My first bf had a nice size dick but it didn't matter cuz he'd blow his load very quickly.

Basically, if you have a small dick (skinny or less four inches or less in my opinion) I'm not going to complain at the time, we will have a great time, but I probably will talk about it to post boyfriends.. sorry im a bitch also I cant deal with anything 7 inches or larger cuz it feels like my insides are being pushed into my lungs, bleh. I sound picky but size is not a deal breaker to me, its just preferences.

a great honest answer. thanks! as a smaller guy that is nice to hear. "not a deal breaker, but make up for it!" well thank god for oral

[bloodtippedrose]

a great honest answer. thanks! as a smaller guy that is nice to hear. "not a deal breaker, but make up for it!" well thank god for oral

also dont underestimate the power of the finger lol (or dear god the vibrator and licking combo). It might seem like the poorly endowed get screwed cuz they have more work to put in to it but all its doing is motivating them to do foreplay RIGHT unlike guys that think theyre so well hung the mere sight of them will get a girl wet (lol yeah right). Sex is only good sex when theres passion and love and raw emotions, and if theres love and emotion anyway the girl is going to want to make you happy just as much as you want to make her happy so do what feels good to YOU too.

If its a one night stand and its all performance based then foreplay for a good half hour or so and she will be so cooked up any size dick will feel good. Oh and one other thing, the smaller a guys dick is the more awesome head he shall receive! in my book anyway

[DoesntMatter]

also dont underestimate the power of the finger lol (or dear god the vibrator and licking combo). It might seem like the poorly endowed get screwed cuz they have more work to put in to it but all its doing is motivating them to do foreplay RIGHT unlike guys that think theyre so well hung the mere sight of them will get a girl wet (lol yeah right). Sex is only good sex when theres passion and love and raw emotions, and if theres love and emotion anyway the girl is going to want to make you happy just as much as you want to make her happy so do what feels good to YOU too.

If its a one night stand and its all performance based then foreplay for a good half hour or so and she will be so cooked up any size dick will feel good. Oh and one other thing, the smaller a guys dick is the more awesome head he shall receive! in my book anyway

Hi btr didn't know you were still here

[bloodtippedrose]

Hi btr didn't know you were still here

Im like the wind baby.

[queenofheartsNY]

Girth is where it's at. My ex had the most beautiful penis I had ever seen and it made me feel very "full." Couldn't get enough of it!

[rjames]

And here I thought all that was important was how tight the gals cooze got when I put it into her!
LOL

[CAM]

Instead of "size matters", it should be "shape matters"

I am an Asian dude in the 5.5" - 6" range. My fiancee and her friends are mostly all Caucasian women.
Her friends ask her, "So what's it like to be with an Asian man?" She responds, "He has the most beautiful cock in the world."
No need to exaggerate or embellish the facts. If your man has the package you prefer, that's all that matters.

And meanwhile, I'm a white guy with a tall slender Asian girlfriend. She repeatedly says, "I love your cock." Having been with a few women in my life, I get the sense that sometimes body parts match up well and sometimes they don't. It is kind of like shoe sizes. Hey, whatever flips her switch is the important thing

[asdfg789]

I get the sense that sometimes body parts match up well and sometimes they don't. It is kind of like shoe sizes.

i totally agree with this. I've had a few partners over the years, there was one particular girlfriend who was bit of a cold fish, basically lying there waiting for me to do all the work. Would have been a disaster except our organs were perfectly matched for maximum pleasure. I could never have enough sex with her and she must have enjoyed it too cos she kept coming back for more. Too bad we had our differences and had to part ways

[Looq]

If think the only issue (if there even is an issue) is the wording: "size matter". "Matters" would imply that size is a specific concern. I think the reality of it is that certain sizes (whether it means length or girth) are just more preferable to others. So sure a particular woman may prefer a giant vagina-splitting penis which tickles the bottom of her lungs, but if she doesn't get that from the man she loves, does that really matter? I would say probably not, it would have just the cherry on the cake.

I think it's curious that the flip-side doesn't really come up. Vagina's come in a wide range of shapes and sizes, just like penis do, but you don't really hear "tightness matters".

[CAM]

If think the only issue (if there even is an issue) is the wording: "size matter". "Matters" would imply that size is a specific concern. I think the reality of it is that certain sizes (whether it means length or girth) are just more preferable to others. So sure a particular woman may prefer a giant vagina-splitting penis which tickles the bottom of her lungs, but if she doesn't get that from the man she loves, does that really matter? I would say probably not, it would have just the cherry on the cake.

I think it's curious that the flip-side doesn't really come up. Vagina's come in a wide range of shapes and sizes, just like penis do, but you don't really hear "tightness matters".

Totally agree with this. I make love to her whole body. Being in her vagina, to me at least, is the most intimate physical connection between us and makes the rest of the physical play more exciting. Contrary to sex mythology...vaginal intercourse is not "Home Plate"--it might be "Second Base." "Third Base" is when you incorporate it into making love to her whole body. "Home Plate" is when you make love to her heart.

[CAM]

So, don't get all caught up the size stuff--if your lovemaking is going well, then the size is right for both of you.

[asdfg789]

but you don't really hear "tightness matters".

maybe because us men are just happy to have a piece of ass

seriously though, as long as it not totally loose and devoid of feeling, i would take a nice wet pussy over a overly tight one

[Rabbitt]

Size matters, not just for the girls also for guys.

My ex is Asian, and even though we had alot of sex the first time she went on top of me we couldnt do it properly because it hurted her, so we only did 1 position on our sides and me behind her, thats the only positions she felt comfortable with.
while i've also had white girls and it to me felt like I could never ever get her an orgasm.

depends on : girl, experience and their body.


to guys its also important , if you've got a small one and your having sex with someone whos already hard to please it can kill your confidence and the sex can really be dissapointing.