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    Am I that lucky?

    I was telling a friend of mine that my boyfriend calls me beautiful, and loves me all the time. He plans that I don't really get a job, and just be the financial supporter of the family. He wants me to have everything in the world, and we plan a multi-thousand dollar honeymoon. He will also pay for my college, and help me with my career. He's educated, physically attractive for me, and comes from money. He's not perfect, but his imperfections compliment mine. Where he lacks I make up, and where I lack (lmao; which is everything ) he over makes up for it. We're also deeply in love now, and for a while so it's not infatuation.

    We're engage as well.

    She told me to go forward and not to look back. I have nothing materialistic or any achievements yet, except myself and my youth.

    I am not sure how rare it is to find a man like this. So am I lucky?

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    We need more information.
    How old are you?
    How long have you guys been together?
    Do you live together?

    It sounds like the honeymoon period to me when everything is wonderful. Me. I could only really get with somebody if I respected them and if they are 'pretty' but have done nothing with their lives then I could not respect them and therefore not love them. Be careful - if he pays for your 'life' then he might feel that he has the right to decide everything and you'll end up being a doormat

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    You sound like a lucky sex toy. When you lose your youth he'll probably find another sex toy.

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    Are you lucky? Depends on what you want. It sounds like you are happy with what you have, so I guess you are lucky to have what you want.

    Personally, I wouldn't be happy with that arrangement. Yes, being called beautiful and told you are loved feels good, but it feels even better on a foundation of mutual respect, IMO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CynthiaC View Post
    I was telling a friend of mine that my boyfriend calls me beautiful, and loves me all the time. He plans that I don't really get a job, and just be the financial supporter of the family. He wants me to have everything in the world, and we plan a multi-thousand dollar honeymoon. He will also pay for my college, and help me with my career. He's educated, physically attractive for me, and comes from money. He's not perfect, but his imperfections compliment mine. Where he lacks I make up, and where I lack (lmao; which is everything ) he over makes up for it. We're also deeply in love now, and for a while so it's not infatuation.

    We're engage as well.

    She told me to go forward and not to look back. I have nothing materialistic or any achievements yet, except myself and my youth.

    I am not sure how rare it is to find a man like this. So am I lucky?
    Odd....because in a previous posting I recall you saying he was ugly with money?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxazurexx View Post
    Odd....because in a previous posting I recall you saying he was ugly with money?
    Isn't she the same troll they kicked a couple of weeks back?

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    Quote Originally Posted by the_robot View Post
    Isn't she the same troll they kicked a couple of weeks back?
    Most probably :|

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    smells like troll...with failed grammar. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by CynthiaC View Post
    I am in the process deciding what is more important to me, a chance at fame or love? I am 19 yrs old and wanted to become a star for quite some time, but without any true talent or remarkable good looks. So it's unlikely. I am also poor, and so if I go for fame I will be a stripper and a porn star.

    A man proposes to me last month, and he loves me and I love him, but I know in my heart that my desire to go do the dream will not be there. If I drop him, I will drop a chance of love and of being financially secured.
    This is how you started your presence on the forum. You keep asking if you should marry him. Sounds like you should. He'll get you where you want to go. Of course, you'll also be his property 'cause it sounds like he wants to own you. But you're such an odd little person I'm not sure that will be a problem for you.

    Rare? Not really. Lots of men with means try to buy affection and loyalty from women.

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    GO FORWARD AND NEVER LOOK BACK.

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    i could have sworn you said that it's AFTER high school that you plan on doing this, and you said you were going to move in with him since you met him on the internet? Sounds like you've never even met him in person. And you're making yourself sound like a gold-digging troll. you said you were only 17 a few days ago, i could be wrong but i doubt it. it was in a very recent post where you were giving someone else 'advice'.
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    I don't see why he doesn't just buy himself a sex toy. If he really needs a companion, a dog would be more fulfilling (and less expensive).

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    This post makes no sense. He doesn't want you to have to get a job, but he will pay for your education and help you with your career?

    Yep, smells like a troll to me.
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    Troll...troll...troll...lol

    Gotta love the stupid ass trolls!!

    If you're not a troll, then your a good digger that when your looks fade, dude will dump your ass for another young "hottie" to OWN!! LMAO

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    I'm totally confused, one day she is 19 and wants to be a porn star and admits to not being very good looking..then the next she's 17 still waiting to graduate out of high school and is in love with some far away douche bag who probably isn't even who he says he is. She's sounds like she's 14 and totally schizo.

    And since she's not replying to any of this. I think we definitely called her bluff. muahahaha
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