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    She dumped me cause we didnt have sex??? What

    When we got together 6 months ago, on 6th date I moved into her parents house (basically stayed every night) I courted her briefly went on a few dates, kissed her on third date, hugged her on the next. Never got to the makeout part cause I moved in and we sorta switched gears from the romantic part of it. She NEVER gave me any kind of signs that she wanted sex she always teased me for awhile then after teasing she stops and I just feel horny and frustrated go to sleep kinda pissy.

    Early on in the relationship she let me put it in her ONCE after like an hour of me getting frustrated playing with myself next to her. So she told me to put it in and I did and we had sex she didnt cum though so she was frustrated. AFter that she NEVER told me to do it again, we were together for 5 months after that NO SEX she only let me cum in her boobs TWICE.
    I even mastrubated in her bed a few times while she was sleeping it was a big joke with us, as I later found out she was playing with herself secretly so much when I wasnt there her dildo broke!

    At the end of the relationship we have a day where she keeps teasing me by sqeezing my stuff in my underwear the she stops again not proceeding. All day until the night, when she let me touch her all over and she teased me again and stopped then she said " A real man would either go relieve himself in bathroom or take it" So i tried to touch her everywhere but she said there were too many factors and she was not in the mood.

    The same morining she broke up with me over the phone saying she wants me to become self reliant and love myself and find myself and get more experience sexually because she feels like she is my first girl (shes my second after my exwife of 3 years) and she doesnt want to be the teacher in the relationship.

    What the hell did I do wrong people, wasnt I being a gentleman and not a perv like women want you women are compeletely ununderstandable, what the hell do you want from your man?!?!?!?

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    man girls dont really want a gentleman...all the time. sometimes be a gentleman. but sometimes you just gotta take what you want. unless of course she gives you a firm 'NO' then yeah back off. to me she sounds like a tease that likes a man to take control of the situation and just rip her clothes off and **** her! you ever try that? she is probably even the kind of girl that has rape fantasies! if you turned her off cuz she is a slut and you dont have much experience then **** it! let her go and go get laid by a bunch of different girls until you get some style and experience in the sack. then after you bang about 20 broads and next time you see her whip your dick out and hit her in the forehead with it!
    I got loaded last night on a bottle of gin
    And I had a fight with my redneck girlfriend
    But when I'm drinkin' I am nobody's friend
    Please baby wait for me until they let me out again

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    Quote Originally Posted by ktm390 View Post
    then after you bang about 20 broads and next time you see her whip your dick out and hit her in the forehead with it!
    LMFAO hahaha

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    She wants you to **** her.
    go round to her house, make up with her, rip her clothes off and **** her.
    Problem solved.

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    Lol this was kinda like me with my boyfriend. She really was just teasing, hoping you'd get so turned on that you would take the initiative.

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    dotn do it unless you ready.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by ktm390 View Post
    man girls dont really want a gentleman...all the time. sometimes be a gentleman. but sometimes you just gotta take what you want. unless of course she gives you a firm 'NO' then yeah back off. to me she sounds like a tease that likes a man to take control of the situation and just rip her clothes off and **** her! you ever try that? she is probably even the kind of girl that has rape fantasies! if you turned her off cuz she is a slut and you dont have much experience then **** it! let her go and go get laid by a bunch of different girls until you get some style and experience in the sack. then after you bang about 20 broads and next time you see her whip your dick out and hit her in the forehead with it!
    this was hi-larious

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    You should have let her have the top. Let her do all the moving until she cums. You must study her movements and see what she did to make herself cum on top. Second advice, should have gave her oral sex. Most important advice. Check out some Karmasutra videos or books. Amazon has a good one. Once you follow everything I just said you will be in the house!
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    this might help you



    I was 15 going on 20, when i met up with the soul man
    he was quite a lover of the cards and of the dice
    he had whores and he had ladies
    he made love and he made babies
    he could tell some damn good storie
    s and give some good advice

    you gotta learn how to pick em son
    learn how to lick em son
    learn how to stick em son between the thighs
    and you got to try not to beat em too much
    try not to teach em too much
    try not to feed em to much bull shit and lies

    He'd sit down and pour some whisky
    and he'd mixed it up with water
    here's a picture of my daughter he would say and he would sigh
    then he'd drink and laugh a little as he picked up that old fiddle that same ol riddle i never did know why

    you gotta learn how to pick em son
    learn how to lick em son
    learn how to stick em son between the thighs
    and you got to try not to beat em too much
    try not to teach em too much
    try not to feed em to much bull shit and lies

    now the years ive seen him buried
    his daughter and me married
    i was sure he raised her right an taught her how to ****
    when i asked her what he told her
    shed said he never scold her
    he would always hold her but he never told her much
    well her told her men were plain and simple
    told her love was like a pimple
    once you squeeze the juices out it just goes away
    taught her how to hold on tighter and her taught her not to let men fight her
    then there was this poem he taught her on his dyin day

    you got to learn how to suck em daughter
    learn how to **** em daughter
    learn how to take there money, learn how to cry
    you got to try not to hold em too much
    try not to scold em too much
    try not to feed em too much bull shit and lies
    I got loaded last night on a bottle of gin
    And I had a fight with my redneck girlfriend
    But when I'm drinkin' I am nobody's friend
    Please baby wait for me until they let me out again

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    So to the ladies out there what do you think?

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    She sounds like a weirdo. If I wanted sex, I'd just take the initiative and attack. She was throwing out all these conflicting signs, and then dumps you for not doing what she wants? You should've told her you weren't f%cking mind reader.
    Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi

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    How can you dump someone for not having sex with you!!!! I'm still outraged, damn I don't know if its a man thing but I want a friggin rematch!! No matter how many low-confidence girls I lay now I'll always want my ex!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikityan View Post
    we had sex she didnt cum though so she was frustrated. AFter that she NEVER told me to do it again,
    I think that's your problem right there.

    Girls feel that they achieved something with a guy if he can make her cum.

    You need to learn how to that buddy.

    But then again, she couldve given you chances to get "better" at sex.

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    If she just gave up after the first time, then she isn't worth it. But if you think by just sticking it in and pumpin that crap out of her is the way to have sex, then you need to look for info on how to get a girl to orgasm and improve your technique (if you have one). There is a ton of stuff on the net that can explain G spot stimulation and other techniques, like oral sex to reach that goal......start studying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    l......start studying.
    I'd wish they made this part of the sex education back in school.

    A lot of guys would put in the effort to try and get a HD out of it xD

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