I've been dating a guy for about a month. Recently we've decided to have sex (well in a moment of passion). We've had sex three times now. The first couple times were pretty quick...the last time lasted a little longer, but I've never been turned on enough to climax. I feel a little bit used. Is that weird?
He is also not very romantic...I mean, we have a lot in common. We go to school together in the same major, we like a lot of the same things. He's very quiet, though, and not very expressive of his thoughts or feelings. So I have no idea what's going on! I've tried to get him to open up a bit, but maybe I need to be more direct? Should I just tell him how to romance me and how to turn me on? This seems like it might be insulting...? I feel like I do much more for him than he does for me.
Any one else had this problem before? Any solutions?
PS
To throw in another complication--we are going to school together, as I have mentioned. We have many of the same friends and acquaintances, and classes. If this does not work out, things could get very awkward.