Thinking of doing something crazy

[zipzap]

Do you think she is of inferior intelligence that she didn't understand that you wanted to have a meal with her, likely make small talk and an awkward attempt at kissing her? let it go bro.

SO you're saying it WAS considered asking her out and her reply WAS a rejection? That's how I felt at the time, and that's why I didn't ask again. But now I think there's more I could've done. Or I could've played the game better. Maybe I should've gone through a neutral 3rd party (like a matchmaker) to see if she'd be interested.

[SelflessnHumble]

Can an admin delete this thread and ban this ahole for being a troll

I'm almost inclined to agree.

He is her true love but she:
doesn't feel the same...she is with someone else, he can't get a clue even if the Salvation Army were handing them out for free...I mean dang!

[MerryH]

Maybe I should've gone through a neutral 3rd party (like a matchmaker) to see if she'd be interested.

That's not how matchmakers work.

[zipzap]

I'm almost inclined to agree.

He is her true love but she:
doesn't feel the same...she is with someone else, he can't get a clue even if the Salvation Army were handing them out for free...I mean dang!

Whatever...I'm keeping a close eye on Facebook until the wedding. I don't think he's right for her. I know here mom too and have not congratulated her yet. If I sense that she's not happy with him either, then I might have a chance.

[zipzap]

That's not how matchmakers work.

How about "facilitator"?

[zipzap]

SO you're saying it WAS considered asking her out and her reply WAS a rejection? That's how I felt at the time, and that's why I didn't ask again. But now I think there's more I could've done. Or I could've played the game better. Maybe I should've gone through a neutral 3rd party (like a matchmaker) to see if she'd be interested.

This really a key question. If it WAS a full-fledged ask-out and full-fledged rejection, then why did she continue to be friendly with me for months afterward, walk with me a couple more times, and even flirt with me a few times???

[SelflessnHumble]

Whatever...I'm keeping a close eye on Facebook until the wedding. I don't think he's right for her. I know here mom too and have not congratulated her yet. If I sense that she's not happy with him either, then I might have a chance.

O.k....What do you love about her? What does she do to you that makes you *feel* in love with her?
What have you done for her to make her feel enough to give you glances (based on pity) that you feel were shared via a "moment" between you two while she was with her husband to be?

[SelflessnHumble]

This really a key question. If it WAS a full-fledged ask-out and full-fledged rejection, then why did she continue to be friendly with me for months afterward, walk with me a couple more times, and even flirt with me a few times???

Why are you quoting yourself?

[MerryH]

How about "facilitator"?

How about you grow a pair and ask girls on dates yourself?

[DarkHelmet82]

why are we still responding to this dude.. just ignore him and he will go away

[Horseyguy]

I want to beat him with a duck, he's doing my head in

[Horseyguy]

Yes thanks Humble before you start, I know it's me doing my own head in because only I am choosing to get pissed off at this guy for being a total dick splash and yes I do take full responsibility for that, and yes I will just stfu now

Thanks in advance for the advice

[SelflessnHumble]

Yes thanks Humble before you start, I know it's me doing my own head in because only I am choosing to get pissed off at this guy for being a total dick splash and yes I do take full responsibility for that, and yes I will just stfu now

Thanks in advance for the advice

I didn't say anything to you man!
You didn't ask for advice about this dude...and what you do is your choice...Now, if you started a thread about it, then I might respond...

[Horseyguy]

I think one thread on this topic is one too many already

[DarkHelmet82]

Just ignore the troll