2 weeks of NC, now what???

[ktm390]

i havent talked to her in about two weeks now and the only options i have for any kind of contact is : her calling me, or me sending something to her work (like flowers or a card or whatever). i'm not allowed to go into her work. i dont know if she thinks im getting over her or if i want her back or ??? if she thinks i dont care and dont want her back, that could be bad right? i think i want her to at least know i still care???? what do i want to do if i want her back? oh yeah i have one other option of possibly contacting her, which is email her friend in town and have her talk to her and pass on a message. i just didnt want to do something stupid that would sabotage any chances i had for getting her back. someday, who knows how long, i will get to talk to her at least one more time because she still has pretty much all of her things where i'm living. i have no idea when she is gonna call or come for them though. but i dont want to wait too long to the point where her feelings for me start to go downhill. i want to talk to her while i'm still in her mind.

[ashley89]

it all depends... do you want to get back with her? do you think she wants to get back with you?

[ktm390]

yeah i want to get back with her, and last time i talked to her she said she still loves me but if she stayed with me right then instead of going somewhere else she would not get any support from her family ever again. still hasnt called me but still has her stuff here. so i'm not really sure what she wants. thats why i really want to talk to her, to find out what she wants!

[carl1222]

I'm confused. If SHE dumped YOU, how much more could her feelings for you "go downhill"??? If YOU dumped HER, then why do you still care and why are you worried that you have no way of directly contacting her? Why can't you call her or email her if you want to?

There are too many holes ... what is really going on here?

[ktm390]

she didnt dump me. we got in a big crazy fight and she left. but came back a couple days later to get some work clothes and thats when she said she still loves me and all that shit, didnt say anything about breaking up with me. i cant call her cuz she doesnt have a cell phone and i dont know where she is staying. and i tried to email her but she doesnt have internet access or access to a computer cuz she hasnt logged on to her facebook or myspace.

[ktm390]

i think i'm gonna send a card to her work saying either 'i hope you are doing good, i miss you' or 'i really need you to come get your stuff if we are over. its too hard to look at and its not fair' ?????????????? any thoughts?

[Boisdevie]

It is over

[ktm390]

well then i guess i have nothing to lose, huh? might as well go all out. i have got her back before, could happen again.