Maybe I'm being immature but she totally ditched me. When we got out of class we talked for about ten minutes then she told me that she had to go shopping with her mom. After she got back from shopping she txt me and said that she was going to hang with a friend and have her hair dyed. I feel kind of crappy right now.
I don't particularly care for Valentines Day, but she said that she wanted to do something special all month. I feel lonely
With college and work we see each other maybe once or twice a week...
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15-02-11, 04:04 AM #1
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My girlfriend ditched me on Valentines Day
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15-02-11, 04:08 AM #2
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That was most likely her way of saying I hope you do something romantic for me. My guess is she thinks you have no roamcne planned- well, do you?
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Yeah, why didn't you have anything planned?
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I have reservations for a restaurant, but she hasn't txt back in two hours...
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I assume you told her your plans and she agreed, right? So she'll see you tonight. Don't trip.
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I guess I was just hoping for a romantic day that we could spend together.
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Before we say anything: DID YOU plan ANYTHING with her? (implying you talked to her about it so SHE would know V day was to be your day together?)
If not: How is she to know? Should she stop her world because V day is supposed to be a day for couples?
If you don't care for V day: does she know that? If so: case closed. if not? again...I ask you what did you have planned and did you make those plans with her?
This relationship sucks man...I know a guy who sees a hooker once a week.
I know work and/or school can strain a relationship: but she is obviously aware of this: so why haven't you emphasized that you two spend more time together
and why hasn't she made some time and effort for you? Does she expect you to do all the driving/traveling?
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Guys... wow. I feel like crap. A friend of mine told me that he saw her holding hands with a guy downtown. He had a huge argument with her and the guy. I've yet to hear from her but I know he wouldn't lie. I've known this guy since grade 2 and we are 20 years old. He also has nothing against her and they get along quite well. He's coming over to hang with me. I feel like crap. What should I do? I'm so hurt.
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15-02-11, 04:47 AM #9
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Aww. Sorry, honey. That's rough.
Don't freak out, yet. Just wait until you can hear it from her. Hopefully she will be completely honest with you and not try to bullshit her way out of it.
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What should you do?
Originally Posted by sheditchedme
Your relationship was (seemingly) built on nothing or has devolved into nothingness...Check.
If this is true: she didn't have the courage to tell you face to face she didn't want to be with you...Check
Ask yourself what do you need (to move on) ???
Do you need to confront her? If so: call her NOW.
Ask her nicely where she is. Don't sound needy, just sound confident.
Ask what friends she's hanging out with (if she used them for lying)
Or find out when she gets home to confront her.
If you just take your friend's word: then that's all you need, I guess.
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I knew something wasn't right. Boy, am I going to drink tonight...
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It's over. Get whatever belongings she has of yours and be done with her.
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I need to go think. I'll keep you guys updated with the situation when I get back later or tomorrow. I don't even know what to think right now.
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fixed it for you. Originally Posted by girl68
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15-02-11, 05:44 AM #15
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Wow... guess I should've finished reading the thread before I commented.
She's too immature to have a meaningful relationship. If you can't tell somebody that it's over, you aren't grown up enough (yet) to have a relationship. Since you say she's only 20, that's not terribly surprising.
Too bad man, that's a really shitty thing to learn of on Valentine's Day.
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