Are girls who use sex toys sluts? (is my girl a whore?)

[Areo]

i've been seeing this chick for a few months and im wondering if shes basically a skank.

1. she has 2 dildos. One she uses is the "rabbit" which has like something for her clit attached on it. Sometimes she texts me when she uses it and wants me to send her dirty texts while she gets off while im at work.

2. We had sex on the 3rd date

3. Shes only 21 and has had sex with 10 guys

SO is my girl pretty much a skank or what? And question 2, are girls who use sex toys skanks?

[Charlie Boy II]

The sex toys don't make her a skank. Texting you while she's doing it is hot!

10 guys by 21 is borderline. My girlfriend is 21 as well. I think her number's about 4 or 5 which I'm fine with. Actually I think i'd be okay with 10. Wait till you get to your late 20s, then everyone's carrying around some serious numbers!

[mymy]

10 guys at age 21... sounds like a skank to me mate. Seems like shes exploring her sexuality, A LOT. Don't get emotionally attached. Just have your fun.

[girl68]

The only skanky thing about her is 10 and 21. Other than that those things are irrelevant. She's a fantastically dirty girl. Sounds wonderful to me and I'm a chick.

[Junket]

I'd put my dick in her butt.

[smackie9]

numbers mean dick.......she likes sex so what. She uses toys to mix it up, so shut the f uck up and be happy she likes sex.....it's what you guys talk about having am I right?

[xxazurexx]

Some guys are never happy. They whinge when they don't get it and whinge when they do....jeeez!

[Anturo]

i've been seeing this chick for a few months and im wondering if shes basically a skank.

1. she has 2 dildos. One she uses is the "rabbit" which has like something for her clit attached on it. Sometimes she texts me when she uses it and wants me to send her dirty texts while she gets off while im at work.

2. We had sex on the 3rd date

3. Shes only 21 and has had sex with 10 guys

SO is my girl pretty much a skank or what? And question 2, are girls who use sex toys skanks?

If you were to take into what I use for a skank equation, then yes she qualifies as a skank.

However, it is not the toys or texting/calling you while she is using them.

Women who use toys are exploring their sexuality to its fullest. (And that my friend is a good damn thing)

However back to why I think she is a skank. Number of Partners < Woman’s Age / 3.

So in your case she is: 10 < 7 21/3 = 7

Because this equation is false then yes she is a skank.

If it were true, i.e. she had 4 partners. Then would be 6 < 7, she would be in the clear as a skank.

For the male version of the skank meter, I tell my female friends to use 2 as the denominator.

But just because she is what I would currently consider a skank, doesn’t mean I rule them out.

I'd just use more caution at first.

According to this equation I was a skank and my wife was a skank when we met one another. Yet we both stopped and have been with one another only for 5 years now.

So don’t worry about it. Just wrap it up.

[Ric]

She just loves her sexuality. I think the terms skank and slut are way overused, so I wouldn't say she's a skank or similar.

[jerybaby18]

I know this is an ask a man forum, but here goes anyway.... A girl who uses sex toys is not a skank. It feels good, so why not? There is nothing wrong with that.
Sounds to me like you guys are young. And at your age people tend to use the words skank, whore, slut, etc. When you get older you will start to realize that there is nothing wrong with a healthy sexual appetite. Also, I don't get the whole "How many people have you slept with" question. I bet, being a man, sleeping with 10 girls by 21 isn't much of an issue. It's a bullshit double standard. I give this girl credit to be comfortable with whom she is and to enjoy her sexuality. Be glad you are with a girl who is comfortable in that way. And don't judge her on stupid bullshit like that. If you like her, than don't look for excuses to get out of the relationship. Because those are really crap excuses.

[girl68]

My equivilant:

If girls use toys they skanks... okay.
If males use porn they manwhores.

See how completely stupid that sounds?

[Anturo]

My equivilant:

If girls use toys they skanks... okay.
If males use porn they manwhores.

See how completely stupid that sounds?

Yes I'm a manwhore!

I've always dreamt of the day I'd have that label.

[girl68]

Congrats! I'm a whore slut myself.

ETA: add: skank... yes, I'm all of those.

[the_man101]

I also believe she is exploring her sexuality, but I necessarily wouldn't call her a whore or skank. I wish my girl was as freaky as your's. : )

[OrdosInfinity]

Is a man who masturbates a skank? What in the hell kind of standard is that? Even as a guy that implied double standard in your question really reeves me. Ten guys by 21 is iffy but maybe she got started early? She seems to dig you now so if I was a guy in your position I would roll with it. Then again, I am not you so, ultimately, you will have to decide for yourself.