I feel stupid even asking this. I'm 33 so I'm not new to the dating scene, however I keep finding myself totally confused by men! I've recently met this guy who is very fun and outgoing. We have been out on 4 dates that were all really long outings - like a full day and evening event sort of thing. I've flirted a little - grabbed his arm when possible, proped my legs up on him when sitting on the couch. The problem is, he has not made any moves! I don't know what to do! You would think by now he would have at least tried to kiss me. He seems to enjoy spending time with me. He never lets me pay for anything even though I offer every time. He has been married before so obviously he's been around women and dated and stuff (he is 36). Is he just shy when it comes to this sort of thing, or is he not interested? I'm just confused. In every other way he is very talkative and confident. It seems like even the little flirting that goes on, I always initiate. If any of y'all have some insight, I would appreciate it. Thanks!