This is my first time here. I'm needing advise. My bf of 2 years who I live with has been distant and I recently found he has been talking to a female coworker A LOT through text messages and random phone calls. I have confronted him and he said that she is having problems with a daughter and needs his advise. My question is should I believe him since he kept this a secret or should I stop fooling myself and realize he may be cheating.