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    Some tips would be appreciated :)

    So heres my story. There is this girl that used to like me alot , but until lately I didnt really care much. Well, I am of the opinion it is the single greatest mistake of my life. Shes good looking and I do think shes a great person, fun etc.

    I invited her for a drink two times in last month or so, but somehow we were never in the same city, but she did say that we can have a drink in the city she was in at that moment, when I asked her. I also said, that she can call if she has time. She didnt until now, but that is normal, right?

    Now here is the deal. Next week Im planing on inviting her out once more and it feels really awkward. I need some tips, advices. Is asking her out a good idea? Should I tell her im of the opinion my previous decisions were mistakes?

    P.S. Dont have a clue if shes seeing someone right now and am all psyched up at the moment, dont really know why, cant sleep, am not hungry...I want to correct my previous mistake badly and am not sure how.

    Thanks

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    You are lucky she called at all, most girls wouldn't have called even if they were interested. So that's a fairly certain sign she has some interest. Definitely ask her out again. When you go out, definitiley do not make any reference to not liking her before, but liking her now. Just take her out, make it clear you like her, and let things go as they go.
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    She did not call until now. Also one thing, if we meet like in the city, she stops and we small talk , exchange some words.

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    Tip: Do not have high hopes. Do not get too excited. Just be yourself. If opportunities arise, take full advantage. Otherwise, just be cool.

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    I dont have high hopes. Actually Im preparing myself for a fail. Id like a womans opinion/perspective on this one , though.

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    Ok, heres an update. Today theres a concert and her friends are going there, cause her friends are my friends. She usually doesnt go to concerts like the one today. Since Ive already invited her out, but somehow never asked at the right moment, my thoughts are: If shelll be there, isnt this like a subtle message, that I should maybe approach her (not too straight forward)? Start a conversation and latter ask if shes available and tell her how it is?

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