Girlfriend doesn't like receiving oral

[vashti]

From all the porn I've watched, I've never seen an ugly vagina; Well, maybe once or twice

I've seen ugly ones. trust me, they are out there. Thank god for clothing.

[doppelgaenger]

There are a lot of funny words for vagina. Roast beef curtains and meat wallet in particular give off some arousing imagery.

[bloodtippedrose]

^ my first bf called a chicks vagina during her period a bloody axe wound, lol

[queenofheartsNY]

..... Aaaaaaaaaaaaand, that's not a guy I would want to date.

[warriormaiden]

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Then he's got issues. He could be gay?

I knew a guy who was like that!
Not only did he think it was dirty, but he also found it demeaning to women.

[Xena]

I am 24 years old and lost my virginity at the age of 14. I wasn't comfortable having a guy go down on me until I was 20-21. And to be honest the reason was all sorts, I thought what if it smells and I dont know it, what if he doesnt like the way it looks, what if it tastes funny, what if I am not like other girls, etc. Just be patient with her. I would suggest giving her a full body massage and get her relaxed. Show her that you love every inch of her body. Don't ever just go straight for it. That will make a girl close her legs fast, especially if it is her first time. Maybe try taking a shower or bath together and get her then. That's how it happened with me.

There's no telling why she doesn't want you to go down on her. She is probably not going to tell you the true reason either because it may be embarrassing for her.

I hope this helps.

[CAM]

Yeah, some women just don't like it. You could always tease her by just licking the inside of her thighs and then when switch from one thigh to the other, just kiss her flower just to let her know that you are thinking of it. Eventually, she might relax and let you try again.

[Yet another guy]

If I had a choice, I would dump a girl if she didn't like it.

[CAM]

Yeah, if you had a choice... If any guy has a choice in these matters. Fact is that we have to find a place where both partners are happy. Unlike all the porn you might have watched, it ain't about you...it about both of you. And, sex is the least satisfying thing when you are doing it just for your pleasure. In fact, I'd say that sex ranks well down the list on what I want. I'm more satisfied when my gf gives me a hug and I can feel that she just needs my support and vice versa...just smelling her her hair at that moment does wonders. And, I was more turned on when she was sitting naked on my clothed lap, caressing me and talking about life.

If you are going dump a girl just because you want to lick her genitals then you really should consider getting a fleshlight and lock yourself in a dark room.

[bloodtippedrose]

OMG fleshlights are the sexiest toy. I could get off watching my bf play with one or a video of a guy on the internet playing with one ANYTIME

[Yet another guy]

If you are going dump a girl just because you want to lick her genitals then you really should consider getting a fleshlight and lock yourself in a dark room.

I doubt that licking a fleshlight is the same. Even if it enjoys it.
I wouldn't expect all people to have the same view on this matter since, it just happens to be part of my favorite fantasy, which makes it very much a personal opinion. In general though, I believe that everyone who have a choice should strive to be with someone who enjoys the same things in bed.

[CAM]

Yeah, obviously compatibility. How about the compatibility that both people like to have sex? Enough or does it have to a liking of the exact same positions? Example: one of my ex-gfs hated doggie style. The last gf liked it. The common denominator was that they were both with me and I liked them.

Fleshlights...they are REAL competition to the female vagina. Try it once and the next time you have sex with the real thing you are thinking, "Wow, I wish I was with the fleshlight instead; particularly true when in a hurry and no time for the "post-coital cuddle." Also, the fleshlight never has an STI, never has its period, and never gets pregnant. Old days: if you were horny, you had to gin up a belief that you really liked the woman and that sex involved every bit of "her." Post-fleshlight world: horny moment? You know what you need, you get what you need. It doesn't involve "her" It just involves "it." I think that men growing up in the world of fleshlights are more likely to have honest relationships...honest with themselves and with their prospective partner. It won't be the hormones running the show. Well, not as much, at least. The guy that invented the damned thing should get the Presidential Medal of Freedom...freedom from one's bodily fluids and freedom to make good choices. Really, if I were president, he's be the first guy to receive a medal.

[CAM]

...and if you want a different model, it isn't at all rude or disrespectful to throw it away and buy a new one. No need to say, "It's not you, its me." No need to be yelled at, screamed at, etc. No hateful looks from her friends. Simply get online, whip out the credit card and voila...new model in brown box arrives at doorstep, brought by a smiling unknowing UPS driver. No first meetings and wondering if it was all worthwhile... Just unwrap, unzip, and happiness is only moments away. And then, a quick clean up and back to work, where you know you are happy and probably much more productive, too.

Of course, the real thing is out there and now...now, it is reserved for the discerning man, the man who is now unclouded and rational and is looking for that type of lady who will be his mate, his friend, his companion. The poor coffeehouses and restaurants...the fleshlight has likely taken away billions of dollars worth of business. Perhaps the economic downturn is really a fleshlight induced phenomenon? A thought.

[CAM]

I think that all-male college dorms should give a fleshlight to every resident. Having lived in residence halls for several years...god knows that peace and quiet would have reigned supreme. Far fewer drunken hours. The rooms...carpets and mattresses...would not have smelled like decades old spunk shots and that particular smell of porno magazine paper. I'm willing to bet (metaphorically) that male college students' grades would go up significantly if this policy were instituted.

[CAM]

I've seen ugly ones. trust me, they are out there. Thank god for clothing.

...and thank god for alcohol.