Why would a single woman talk for 7 months to a man over e-mail, messaging, give him her phone number, talk to him over phone and also tell him what she's doing, where she's going with her girlfriends? Laugh at his jokes, tease him, allow him to tell her sweet names, allow him to stroke her arm,kiss her, kiss him back, touch her everywhere, go out with him 5 times, look at him like he's the only one in the world........
Then after a week of normal conversation and planing next date she tells him that she has NO FEELINGS for him, and wishes she would fall in love with him.
And that after the date where the first kiss happened.
Is it possible that she is afraid of relationship?
Two years ago she came out of 9 year relationship. He cheated on her.
She said that we can stay in contact. And it doesn't bother her, for us to meet again. We still talk, text, email. Everyday. We've even been on a date since and it was like nothing happened before.
Kisses, touching, laughing, just normal again.
But a week later she decides not to allow me to kiss her on a date. She said because nothing has changed yet for her. But she would still like to go out with me. But she seemed so sad.
What is wrong? Is it just a test or mind games?
She told me that she feels pressured by me. Does it mean she needs space? I know I can be a bit overwhelmed sometimes.
I love her so much. And she knows it.
But when I ask her if she wants me to leave her alone and not contact her, she has no answer.
I didn't tell her that I love her. She just told me herself that she knows that I love her.
I wasn't planning on telling her for some time.