List your deal breakers guys!

[surfhb]

Refuses to cuss or drink even a small amount - these people are not to be trusted IMO
Not intelligent
More than 30 pounds overweight
Smokes
Almost immediately starts talking about drama in her life

[Bonfire]

Deal Breakers:

Divorce with kids.
Slutty
Drug addict or alcoholic
Crazy
Unable to talk on the same frequency.
No sense of humor, always serious.
Unkind, mean, rude
Materialistic, gold digger.
STD
Hangs out with exs.
Racist
Poor hygiene
Constant complaining
Doesn't keep promises.

[oneandonly]

Refuses to cuss or drink even a small amount - these people are not to be trusted IMO
Not intelligent
More than 30 pounds overweight
Smokes
Almost immediately starts talking about drama in her life

Cuss means swearing, isn't it? I don't swear. Never have. Never will. I don't like people swearing. Not to be trusted? Where does that logic come from?

[the_robot]

Refuses to cuss or drink even a small amount - these people are not to be trusted IMO

I don't drink alcohol if that's what you mean. How that that affect my trustworthiness? Unless you are 15, you wouldn't think such a thing.

[surfhb]

OK....Not to be trusted is a stretch. But cmon, you never go out and have some drink with friends or go to a party and down a couple? Never swear at all? really? Im not talking everynight drinking or cursing like a sailor all the time.

Seams a little bizarre to me. Everyone Ive met who refuses to partake in a little debauchery in life is either highly religious or lives in their own world. Just my observations.

[the_robot]

OK....Not to be trusted is a stretch. But cmon, you never go out and have some drink with friends or go to a party and down a couple? Never swear at all? really? Im not talking everynight drinking or cursing like a sailor all the time.

Seams a little bizarre to me. Everyone Ive met who refuses to partake in a little debauchery in life is either highly religious or lives in their own world. Just my observations.

I do swear once in a while, as for the rest..nope. And I'm not religious at all, but I guess I do live a little in my own world.. haha.

[DoesntMatter]

If she has kids

[DoesntMatter]

Then again I'm 21 so in another 20 years it probably won't be a big deal

[broken man]

no one comes up to my standards and she is gone now

[Sixpacj]

1. disrespect for herself which gives rise to disrespect for others... (BTW, is this proper English? hahaha conundrums of non-native users of the language...)
2. lack of emotional composure
3. low self-esteem (see item 1 hereinabove)
4. poor hygiene
5. daddy/abandonment/trust issues (a minor one, usually not her fault, but if refuses to deal with it like an adult, she is a goner)

[oneandonly]

OK....Not to be trusted is a stretch. But cmon, you never go out and have some drink with friends or go to a party and down a couple? Never swear at all? really? Im not talking everynight drinking or cursing like a sailor all the time.

Seams a little bizarre to me. Everyone Ive met who refuses to partake in a little debauchery in life is either highly religious or lives in their own world. Just my observations.

Nope. Really.

It's not about 'refusing'. Just never have.

[Lixer]

Things that don't do it for me when it comes to women:

- If they have kids, just not ready for this yet.
- Big tattoos, such a turn off. A small one I can live with as long as it isn't a tramp stamp, lol.
- Crazy piercings, dating a human pin cushion... yeah I'll pass.
- Someone who flirts with every guy they talk to.
- No self esteem, be happy with yourself before you try to date someone.
- Messy, I'm not a neat freak by any means but I don't want to visit you when you have crap all over the place.
- Smoking, why would you want to slowly kill yourself. I think I'll keep looking for someone who values life.
- Morbidly obese, just no. A little over weight is fine.
- Lack of a brain. Please have the ability to have an intelligent conversation.

[bloodtippedrose]

Refuses to cuss or drink even a small amount - these people are not to be trusted IMO
Not intelligent

these two completely contradict each other. How is drinking alcohol EVER intelligent?

[Charlie Boy II]

- fat
- slutty
- annoying
- stupid
- no style
- and no female friends (always a sign they're a bit nuts).

[chump4u]

only one real deal breaker: spending more time working on her list of deal breakers than she spends on me.