Confused in love

[jessld]

While I was away on a recent holiday my mates meet this guy Brendan down at the beach at 1am. He ended up doing back with them ( 2 gay guys, 2 very shy ladies with one being chubby and one obese) He gave a which I was told a friendly kiss to one of them. The 1 gay guys gave Brendan a foot and hand massage.

2 weeks later Brendan meet me (not remembering the other chick AT ALL) and told one of my mates Troy (whom is gay, who has a partner but Brendan asked him to take him shopping) that I was pretty sexy.

1 week later from that date he comes around and we end up making out (as well as falling of a chair breaking the chair and falling down the stairs) and laying in the same bed. Wake up and his on the couch. Wake up again and his gone. He texted Troy that arvo to get my number and we had a few txts back and forth. I havent got the ones I sent back but Ill right what he said to me:

Text 1 " Hay how are you. Sorry bout last night got your number off troy"
Text 2 "Hope I didnt do anything stupid last night. Im sorry."
Text 3 "hope you had a good day"
Text 4 "The only thing I remember is falling down the stairs with you "
Text 5 " Yeah nothing out of the orginary. Um bit of an out there question but would you like to go out some time"
Text 6" Good were bouts do you live. I will think of something nice for us to do goodnight"
Text 7 " Nu nyt "

THE NEXT DAY (monday)

Text 8 " Have a good day today :-p"
Text 9 " Send me a pic" (that was that night after I txt him saying I hope he had a good day)

I hadnt heard from him all week so i txt him Friday asking him to come around he didnt reply. He ended up coming around on Sat (at 1am and left at 10am). He was very very very shy. He didnt hug or kiss me all night. But we ended up sitting on the couch (me him and the 2 gay guys) talking and playing never have I ever. Troy offered Brendan a foot massage and Brendan asked me for a hand massage. While we played never have I ever Brendan asked "Has anyone had a fantasy about someone in this room" and we were guilty. He kept being sorta flirty like kept looking at me. And he kept asking me to make him his drinks even though I made them way 2 strong for his liking

Once he left and I got back home (i was at one of the gay boys houses) I txt him and said "Hope you had a good day we all going out for dinner thursday you should come"
His reply was " Are you busy?" followed quickly by "Dw"

Im majorly confused. All I know is his very very very very shhy unless his drinking obvioulsy.

Any help any advise. I no his shy so how do I handle it I dont wanna b full on and scare him and push him away coz I think he needs friends. But I do want this date and see were all this goes.

HELP? How can I get him with being full on and scare him n push him away? But what does he mean so confused

[SapphireBerry]

Hello there, Yes I'm kinda stupid in love with a shy foreigner have been for ages, though I pushed him away.. But yeah, I pretty much know what you're feeling/going through.
Well first off, he might have a few confidence issues and it is up to you and him to meet together maybe even along at your place and just show him that he can open up to you and express himself. Show him you are into him without smothering him, he's giving you all the signals that he likes you, try flattering him and being generous as you are right now though I'm hoping he's not going to take advantage of that generosity. Don't give yourself to him until you feel that things are going well between you two without any confusion.

He seems a little afraid and you just need to give him some time to open up and some sign that you are the right person to open up to. Thinks should work out with you, unlike my little drama haha. If you want any more advice or insight just message me or something. annddd, if you like him then don't try doing anything that will push him away like telling him you love him or constantly pestering him.

Good luck fellow Australian