Originally Posted by
mjfcap
wow,Vashti, Not sure if you just don't understand or don't read everything....maybe you have been cheated on by someone who says they were a sex addict?..
Nope. I wouldn't go out with anyone who thought I'd be dumb enough to fall for that.
Originally Posted by
mjfcap
I don't know, but if you are interested enough in the subject to be so judgmental, maybe you should do a bit more research so you can at least sound like you know what you are talking about?...since I know you will not read more on the subject, and obviously do not care for anyone who is an addict of anything, or care for anyone at all.
Actually, I have read about it, and studied it in nursing school. More level heads think it is a combination of OCD tendencies with a lack of impulse control. Maybe YOU should do a bit more objective study, and quit limiting yourself to points of view that only support what you want to believe? Genuine addiction involves both physical AND psychological dependence. Sex "addiction" doesn't do this... it lacks the component of physical dependence. The bible of psychiatry (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders IV) no longer includes "sex addiction" as a mental disorder, so you see, it is YOU that doesn't appear to know what they are talking about.
Originally Posted by
mjfcap
I think you shouldn't post here anymore, this is a site to help people with issues they may be having, not a soap box for you to stand on and judge people, not a place where you can like the sound of you own opinion...remember, it is not peoples faults for being the way they are, especially if personality traits are caused by traumatic experiences in their past.......but i am curious now, what was yours?...to make you so close minded and judgmental?....
P.S.....there has been absolutely NO cheating in my relationship, no bad decision making and no lack of impulse control....so, really, wtf are you even talking about?.....my observation is that it may be yourself !!!!
I don't even know what point you are trying to make with this last bit.
Last edited by vashti; 12-04-11 at 04:39 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?