Originally Posted by
MrE
Rethink the marriage, I was in a similar boat when i married and it turned out to be an absolute disaster 8 years later. I just couldn't take it anymore.
If you're already thinking about cheating, that wont stop. If you become a cheater then you will live a life of guilt, and likely end up in divorce, paying alimony and all that jazz. Can you honestly commit yourself to a single vagina for your ENTIRE LIFE? No more, one poon and one poon only for you. You will never experience the thrill of the chase, and the thrill of meeting new women and having sex with them EVER. If you can't handle that, then you're not ready to be married and it's much easier to end it now then it is to end it years from now. Trust me.
Of course, if you don't have a guilty conscious then you could always cheat, but that would make you a douche bag.