when the ladies get on top

[ellietwo]

I actually feel a little guilty, because when we have sex my boyfriend does all the work.
we often change positions and I sometimes get on top, and I really like it a lot as does he.
But I don't manage to keep it interesting enough so he always has to take over again.
I'm not that experienced (first boyfriend, we only started having sex 2.5 weeks ago)
-I'm 22 and he's 23-

so some tips would be welcome!

[VincenzoG91]

Strengthen your kegel muscles, to intensify your own orgasms and also to make your boyfriend really happy. And when you're on top, ride him like a racehorse. Google up some porn to watch with him to give you both some ideas involving this position.

[Boisdevie]

Apart from the traditional on top try the reverse cowgirl. Also, when you're on top facing him take your weight not on your knees but on the soles of your feet so that the only parts of you touching are your vagina and his penis. My GF does this and it' is mind blowingly horny.

[asdfg789]

But I don't manage to keep it interesting enough so he always has to take over again.

dont worry too much. it takes a bit of practice so continue to get on top until you get tired. you will find that soon you can do all the riding till he comes.

also communicate, what feels good for him, for you, try some variations in angle, speed. our bodies are all different so you have to find your own sweet spots

[doppelgaenger]

I don't particularly enjoy that position because it's not very stimulating if you don't do it right. Most girls just don't do it right.

[VincenzoG91]

I don't particularly enjoy that position because it's not very stimulating if you don't do it right. Most girls just don't do it right.

That's a good point. Some women get on top and then just passively await the thrusting, which is boring.

[falnangel]

Strengthen your kegel muscles, to intensify your own orgasms and also to make your boyfriend really happy. And when you're on top, ride him like a racehorse. Google up some porn to watch with him to give you both some ideas involving this position.

I definitely agree. Watching porn will help you with the lack of experience.

It's like going to sex school.

[doppelgaenger]

That's a good point. Some women get on top and then just passively await the thrusting, which is boring.

Yeah, or they decide to stick with a boring angle that doesn't stimulate well.

[IndigoGal]

Ok, here's a link to a site (definitely NSFW and has lots of adult content) that has some good advice on how to do well at being on top.

[url=http://blogxilla.com/blog/2011/03/19/ftv-7-ways-to-ride-him-the-right-way/]How To Ride Dick | BlogXilla | Rated Grown Up[/url]

[ellietwo]

Strengthen your kegel muscles, to intensify your own orgasms and also to make your boyfriend really happy. And when you're on top, ride him like a racehorse. Google up some porn to watch with him to give you both some ideas involving this position.

hej vincenzo, thanks for the comment.
I think I can control these muscles well, I was just wondering when exactly you have to use them while having sex..

[VincenzoG91]

hej vincenzo, thanks for the comment.
I think I can control these muscles well, I was just wondering when exactly you have to use them while having sex..

If you start getting a little tired in that position, tighten up on him so you both may come soon.

[chirping]

be willing to experiment. surrender to what you feel.

[lostnconfused22]

Yeah, or they decide to stick with a boring angle that doesn't stimulate well.

What is the best angle then?? Tell us some info so if were doing it wrong we can correct it! =)