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    Obsessed with her

    I can't stop thinking of my girlfriend.
    She does not seem to miss me.
    I would love it if she also texts me or calls me a few times a day.
    I've been told I'm too needy and clingy.
    Okay, if that's the case, how do I overcome it?
    It's very tiring to have my mind filled with nothing but her every second of the day till I'm with her.
    thanks.

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    People have their opinions, but a few times a day isn't weird.

    I bet if her friends get in touch, she can't get enough of them, but she leaves you waiting. They push you away so you stop texting, but I bet she'd complain if you ignored her! I don't have the answers but I sympathise with what you're going through.

    I don't see what the problem is in texting a few times a day. Maybe your girlfriend should see you are a chatty person.

    Are you really obsessed, or is she just rude?

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    Nah i like a guy that shows me attentions as u do :-).

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    How endearing.

    Maybe she is the more independent type. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or doesn't enjoy your attention.

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    the only thing worse than one obsessed partner is two obsessed partners who cannot bring the other back to earth if it gets too much. I think that is my problem

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    get a life. do some things, have some friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Superfantastich View Post
    the only thing worse than one obsessed partner is two obsessed partners who cannot bring the other back to earth if it gets too much. I think that is my problem
    hahaha u make me laugh girl lol. Maybe true... LOL

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    Thanks for all the advice.
    Guess I need to distract myself my doing other stuff.

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    Definitely concentrate on things that you like. Don't lose yourself in the relationship. Remember that she was attracted to who you are before you got into a relationship. Make sure you do the things you like to do in order to continue to be you.

    Good luck.
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