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    A Short Practical Skype Question

    I saw that my ex is " Off line" and it doesn't show time and date he was online for the last time. So he blocked me. We had exchanged some emails, but the offline thing makes me think he wants to hide himself for me.
    What is wise to do? Deleting him from the contactlist looks so overemotional...also because I don't know if it is a temporary state (if he needs some personal space for now or a way to let me fade me from his life)

    I just want to be cool with the situation, after all life goes on. No need to be childish.

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    Yeah, delete him, he's your EX. Don't try to keep tabs on him or leave a "window of opportunity" for him. Life, get on with it, without him.

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    Yeah take the above advice, why care?

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    ...because we are not enemies... breaking up a relationship does not mean banning each other out of your life. That's why I care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Love&Life View Post
    ...because we are not enemies... breaking up a relationship does not mean banning each other out of your life. That's why I care.
    I don't want my ex checking up on when I'm online either. I'd block you too, especially since he obviously knows you were going to check in on him like this.

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    Well the first 2 months after we broke up we were both on Skype and sometimes we were online at the same time. It 's been like that since we've known each (visible when online) So there is no " checking on each other" in this case. But now he's changed it, it's awkward.

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    Stop stalking him.
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    Sound like you still have feelings for him...

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    Deleting your ex is not the same as blocking them.

    While my ex-now-boyfriend-again and I were apart, I deleted him because I didn't want to know he was on Skype, since he obviously wasn't there to talk to ME.

    What's the point of knowing whether or not he's online, and when he was online last, other than to torture yourself?
    "Don't say you want me,
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