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Thread: how long do keep silent before contacting a girl again?

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    how long do keep silent before contacting a girl again?

    Hi,

    If a girl doesn't answer your text where you asked when do we meet (she started first then I suggested different options but she couldn't make it), how long do you wait before contacting her again?
    It's been a week now, no news from her. I guess it might be stupid to move on this early since we just began to get to know each other.

    Thanks

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    Move on. If she comes back, decide what to do then.

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    Yeah. At this point, persistence will only make you seem desperate. Be cool and move on.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    I wouldn't give up so easily. I'd be more direct in my approach. Call her and ask her if she'll be interested to meet up again. She'll say yes or no, most likely yes. Works for me. Good luck!

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    She didn't reply - so obviously she is not interested.

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    I tried again today and got another date... we'll see what happens and have no expectations but I think that giving up too soon was not so great.

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    There's no right answer but i glad it worked out. Generally, if a girl does not return a call, you will never see me calling her again.

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