It's now or never

[surfer808]

so if mommas happy everyone is happy. I think thats bs. Ultimatums regardless of age are bs as well. I wouldn't put up with that for a second. Are you looking for peace or a relationship? A good relationship should be relatively peacefull and respectfull. You definitely want to take care of your mate and her you, but having a deadline or all bets are off? Trust me that won't be the last time. Buy me a new car or I will be outta here. I can here it now. Run fast the other way.

[surfer808]

I just thought more about this. There appears to be a power struggle. When you stand up for yourself, she backs down and is amenable. Then slowly, she brings it up again. I bet if you stop giving in and stand strong, she will accept you and be attracted. Keep giving in, and it will be bad. My thoughts

[Sonrisa]

come on, the lady is over 50, isn't it obvious that she has the right to demand to be a bride before her life is completely over? you really have to be a jackhole not to understand it.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Agree to marry her..with a prenup. She gets no stake in the business, and your individual assets, should remain your individual assets, see what she says to that.

[4seasons]

Thanks for all your comments. I will try to sit her down this week and reaffirm my love and commitment to her. I need to try to have her understand why I want to take things slow. The only time I get doubts or concern is when she appears so desperate. If she believes that I love her, she should understand where I am coming from. She tries to make it look that she has made this huge sacrifice in trying to be patient over the last year.

[Sonrisa]

she is so desperate cuz she is old! young ones are less willing to wait nowadays, what do you expect?