Confused

[SIMILAR]

I am in a relationship of 10 years in which we have been living together. My partner is very cold when it comes to sex , she just pushes me away , i have spent the night making a great dinner for her and cuddling and brushing and get oushed away quickly, i tried talking about it and she get mad, she finally told me that she loves me very much but does not love me romantically therfore does not want sex and it has been 11 months since we had sex. I told her that i am tired of getting rejected but i do love her. When we go to functions she disapears and just does not hang around me. I ca not take it , she fine with the way our relationship is going but the rejection in the home and in public is very hurtful. I want to leave but am financially strapped to our house, if i leave she can not afford the house and the economy does not allow us to sell it without losing a lot of money and i have good credit and do not want to start over at the age of 51 , waht do i do

[MaidenMinx]

How was your sex life before the last 11 months? If you're 51, is it possible your wife is menopausal? Has she ever been comfortable in discussing sexual matters with you? Is the ditching you at functions a new thing?

As you can probably tell, I would like more information....